The fact that you have these doubts suggests that something is wrong. You should be able to trust your husband. Do not listen to answers on here, the only important answer you can get will be from your husband himself. So ask him; put your mind at rest.
Well there are all different types of counseling> :-)
If that "counselor" ever calls your husband between 1:00 and 4:00 in the morning, then you have your answer.
yeah that's enough time to get things done
Counseling is usually in one hour segments but considering time and travel two there hours seems about right. Howvere, you really don't think he is going to counseling do you? More likely a massage parlor , which may I add is a form of counseling I have found.
call the counselor and ask how the sessions are going
whoa!...big red flag.... you might wanna look into that
Can I ask why you are both in counseling, is it separate issues or a joint unresolved issue?.
Sorry to say this but its dead in the water..Hope you find peace...
God I feel so sad reading & responding to this. You know what? you will get through this & come out stronger & happier. I wish you every happiness for the future.x
Is there something that happened that might've harmed your relationship with each other?
counselor should not even acknowledge that her husband is actually attending them as a client unless the husband has given prior permission..
him not even tellin her who he is seeing is a big red flag
Sounds like he's grazing in another pasture!...
Yes, that does sound weird
I would ask who the counselor is...did he mention why he is going? Usually once a week unless he is really messed up about something....I usually listen to my gut...if it tells you something isn't right,,it usually isn't...
No, but I think you should ask him about it instead of strangers on the internet.
Yes there's something funny bout that.
. Go with him next time.
Sex therapist ?
What else could he be doing ?
Not started liking men?
With who ?
several times a week is a bit weird... usually it's like once a week or when things get better every second week....
I'd call the counselor to ask....
and then get marriage counselling...