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My husband thinks i am embarrassed by him because i didn't invite him to go out with my friends. why?

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11 Answers to "My husband thinks i am embarrassed by him because i didn't invite him to go out with my friends. why?"

  1. FlowersNButterflies - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by FlowersNButterflies Apr 29th, 2012 at 6:05PM

    Two people get married. They do NOT become one, contrary to myth and fairy tale. You each need time away frm each other, you do not have to share the same friends, guys and gals are different (gals bond by talking together, guys bond by doing together). Like Kahlil Gibra says, "Let there be spaces in your togetherness."

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  2. thiswhisper - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by thiswhisper Apr 29th, 2012 at 6:00PM

    Guys can be paranoid and insecure, too.

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  3. atadir - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by atadir Apr 29th, 2012 at 9:42PM

    Because he is afraid you are preparing to leave him.

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  4. turduckenluvr - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by turduckenluvr Apr 29th, 2012 at 6:18PM

    Probably cause you didn't invite him to go out with your friends, beotch!

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  5. nwtrdr33 - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by nwtrdr33 Apr 29th, 2012 at 6:12PM

    Why?Why don't you invite him?Are you embarrassed by him?You know the answer.

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  6. IMAGINATIONATWORK - 36-40 years old

    Posted by IMAGINATIONATWORK Apr 29th, 2012 at 6:03PM

    Did your friends invite their husbands?

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  7. graceisgone - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by graceisgone Apr 29th, 2012 at 6:04PM

    no its a male friend

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  8. TexMi - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by TexMi Apr 30th, 2012 at 2:16AM

    well, duh...... you think you'd be cool if he went out with a 'girl' friend and you were not included? Don't tell me you aren't really this ignorant about this situation. He thinks you feel embarrassed by him? - no, honey, he thinks you're cheating! If you two are normal. If you go out w/ a male friend w/o your husband and you think that's ok, and his biggest fear is you might be embarrassed by him? - then carry on, you deserve each other .... yeesh! If you married the man I love and did that, you wouldn't be married any longer than it took for him to leave! Don't know how, but you seem to be stupid and very lucky at the same time.

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  9. QuantumCaffeine - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by QuantumCaffeine Apr 29th, 2012 at 6:03PM

    Speaking as someone prone to insecurity, I'd worry you were embarrassed by me, or thought they wouldn't like me. So I'd have appreciated you telling me why. So long as you just felt like a girls' night out, though, I'd relax. :)

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  10. ChipmunkErnie - 61-65 years old - male

    Posted by ChipmunkErnie Apr 29th, 2012 at 6:02PM

    What are you doing that he can't be allowed to be part of?

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  11. graceisgone - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by graceisgone Apr 29th, 2012 at 6:05PM

    nothing hanging out at the bar getting away from everyday life

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  12. ChipmunkErnie - 61-65 years old - male

    Reply by ChipmunkErnie Apr 29th, 2012 at 6:07PM

    Oh, that explains a bit of it. Do you send him out to bars without you?

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  13. s3r1al - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by s3r1al Apr 29th, 2012 at 6:02PM

    because your a douche that didnt?

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  14. staire - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by staire Apr 29th, 2012 at 6:00PM

    well are you?

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  15. graceisgone - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by graceisgone Apr 29th, 2012 at 6:02PM

    no

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  16. staire - 31-35 years old - male

    Reply by staire Apr 29th, 2012 at 6:05PM

    good then.but ask him out next time,after all he is your man

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  17. blingblogbloop - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by blingblogbloop Apr 29th, 2012 at 6:00PM

    Well why didnt u invite him out?

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  18. graceisgone - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by graceisgone Apr 29th, 2012 at 6:03PM

    i hang out with this person just to get away. i'm not a wife,mother,business owner iget to just be myself and i love it!

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  19. ChipmunkErnie - 61-65 years old - male

    Reply by ChipmunkErnie Apr 30th, 2012 at 2:33AM

    Maybe a divorce is the answer?

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