My husband wants me to lose weight and i am getting so tired of it. What to do?
first of all im a good looking, tall thin girl and ive had guys drooling over me all my life. after i got married, i went on birth control pills and put on 4 kgs so i have a tiny bit of a belly now which is resistant to exercise and diet. so now my husband is on my case all the time to lose this weight, and honestly im trying but the pills just mess with my hormones and i cant lose these extra kgs. he is a great guy and an amazing husband otherwise but is obsessed with healthy eating n weight n to be honest i am getting tired of it. i want to enjoy my life, not be weight obsessed when i dont even need to be. im 5'7 n i weigh 57kg which is perfect for me. i have told him that it annoys me but he just cant stop. i have my birthday coming up and i asked for a specific present that i wanted and he said hell get me that if i lose 5 kgs! i think i have started to hate him now, sometimes i wana lose weight just to throw it in his face and then leave him for a better man. what do i do?
30 Answers to "My husband wants me to lose weight and i am getting so tired of it. What to do?"
Posted by dangerbabe May 22nd, 2012 at 12:24PM
Your weight shouldn't be such a giant concern to him. What if you two have kids and you put on a little weight? Leave him. before it gives you self esteem issues, and find someone who will love you no matter what the scale says.
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Posted by Browneyes4322 May 22nd, 2012 at 12:14PM
Do exactly that. Or you can just leave him for a better guy without the weight loss..Totally possible. ;) Oh don't forget to tell him to go f*** himself.
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Posted by NatiaGonitellie May 22nd, 2012 at 12:12PM
Get rid of him... weight lost.
No more nagging and you've shed 180 lbs give or take.
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Posted by Wo0ds May 22nd, 2012 at 12:10PM
Tell
Him
To
Eat
A
****
If
U
Look
Go0d
Yourself
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Posted by madasalizard May 22nd, 2012 at 12:07PM
Is he in good shape? If so, then I understand him.
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Posted by JusTme20329 May 22nd, 2012 at 12:05PM
maybe you should tell him to back up and let you loose weight in your own pase... let him know that your feeling a lot of pressure by him always reminding you that you have extra weight.. as if you can't see it for yourself.
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Posted by justkoz May 22nd, 2012 at 12:05PM
He is wrong! You can always get some lipo suction and it will be taken care of.
The problem is he is demanding something that may never happen with out that surgery.
Tell him if he pays for it you will do this for him one time. Tell him if he tries this again, you will leave him.
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Posted by guiltybyassociation May 22nd, 2012 at 12:01PM
That sounds a bit cruel. I mean, 4kgs, big deal, who cares. I'd say you should have a good talk with him and let him know what you think of this, but if he's that obsessed about your weight, I doubt it would help.
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Posted by singwme May 22nd, 2012 at 12:00PM
So who is he--Mr. Universe?
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Posted by RenaissanceKoala May 22nd, 2012 at 11:58AM
Ask him to put on weight because you love obesity. :)
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