My husbands daughter thinks she owns her father and made him put her name on all his accts. Are they still?

If plans have already been made between the pair of you, it's wrong that she has butted in!
I would go back and tell them that you want it changed back to how you originally wanted.

Unless he's senile....she didn't "make" him do anything....He chose to do it....you can't blame the daughter, completely, although she definitely has a part in it....It sounds like she's getting into the mode of thinking he won't be around forever, and she wants to get her hands on all she can.....

Not sure if you and the daughter don't get along...possibly because you are much younger. But, how did she find out you were thinking about combining your assets? Did you husband tell her?

I'd set things straight with your husband....You are his wife, and you two should be planning this together, and you both need to be happy with the decision....Tell him to assure his insecure daughter, that she will be included in the will....but, that it's not her place to be on his checking account, etc....that's what his wife is there for. Good luck.

I would have a monster problem with that. And, that he changed the plans you as a couple already made. There is no way in **** i would go and ask my step daughter for money and pt up with him thinking it is OK for you to do that. Plus if he is 72 then she is old enough to have one of her very own and not having access to daddy's money all the time. That is teaching her nothing about life.