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My live in boyfriend of 7 months will not get a job to help out with rent or bills! What do I do?

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If his age is in the same vicinity as yours....he's a lost cause...He will never change....

If you are letting him live there, and him not work....in his eyes, he's hit the jackpot....you do it all, and he sits on his butt, refusing to be a grown up.....Men know that you grow up, get a job, take care of the ones you love....

Mama's boys.....don't.
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Posted Jul 5th, 2009 at 11:41PM
Na Na Na Na
Na Na Na Na
Hey Hey Hey
Goodbye!!!
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Posted Jul 5th, 2009 at 11:41PM
Give him your boot and tell him to come back when he grows up.
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Posted Jul 5th, 2009 at 11:41PM
Tell him .............IT is My Way.....or the Highway. No good will come from a lazy boyfriend...that is a reflection of how much respect he holds for the relationship.
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Posted Jul 5th, 2009 at 11:42PM
Call him a "BUM" and kick him out!

It won't get any better!
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Posted Jul 5th, 2009 at 11:42PM
tell him to go home to mummy
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Posted Jul 5th, 2009 at 11:42PM
Dump him- fast!!!! :o And tell him exactly WHY your dumping him. He cannot expect you to carry the financial burden of housing his ***!!
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Posted Jul 5th, 2009 at 11:42PM
You take his X-Box away until he cleans his room!
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Posted Jul 3rd, 2009 at 5:57AM
Tell him to get off his lazy *** and get a job.
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Posted Jul 3rd, 2009 at 5:57AM
give him the Iron boot or move out your self for the short answer
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Posted Jul 5th, 2009 at 11:43PM
Show him the door, don't worry if it hits him in the *** on his way out.
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Posted Jul 5th, 2009 at 11:43PM
Tell him you're going to quit your job too. Or move in with someone else. Eventually he'll figure it out.
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Posted Jul 3rd, 2009 at 5:57AM
demote him to a "live out" boyfriend and give him a two weeks notice to find someplace else to live.
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Posted Jul 5th, 2009 at 11:43PM
kick his *** to the curb!
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Posted Jul 5th, 2009 at 11:44PM
Did you mean,my ex??; I hope you did.
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Posted Jul 5th, 2009 at 11:44PM
Get real why should you support a lazy good for nothing ?? show him the door NOW
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Posted Jul 5th, 2009 at 11:44PM
Show him the door.
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Posted Jul 5th, 2009 at 11:44PM
LOL!!!! Kudos to Denverguy!!!!! Give him 2 weeks to get a job and then pack his **** and show him the door if he doesn't get one! Better yet, give hime 2 weeks to move out. Break up with him chick! Now that I think of it, he sounds like the type who wouldn't KEEP a job once he got one!!!!! YOU DESERVE BETTER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Posted Jul 5th, 2009 at 11:44PM
Tell him to wake up to the real world,why should you let him live with you rent free,I bet that he gets you to do all the work in the house and wait on him!It sounds like he is a free loader and is using you.Kick him out.I have the same problem with someone that shares my house with me,he has not paid me any money for anything for over 5 Weeks,we have had many arguements about it,I have told him if things dont change he will have to go,he works sometimes,but when he has money he doe's not want to pay me.why do people take advantage of my good nature,and it seems the same in your case.Good Luck
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Posted Jul 2nd, 2009 at 9:54PM
I think you should pick up Steve Harvey's Book. Think like a man, act like a woman. I enjoyed it and maybe it can help you too.

I think he will get away with only what you will allow him to. I will not say "kick him out." that is up to you. But I will say put your foot down.... or in his ***! (sorry). I say this because I know it is hard being the only one to provide. I know personally the stress that comes along with this.

I wish you well. Hugs...
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