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My live in boyfriend of 7 months will not get a job to help out with rent or bills! What do I do?

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If his age is in the same vicinity as yours....he's a lost cause...He will never change....

If you are letting him live there, and him not work....in his eyes, he's hit the jackpot....you do it all, and he sits on his butt, refusing to be a grown up.....Men know that you grow up, get a job, take care of the ones you love....

Mama's boys.....don't.
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Posted Jul 2nd, 2009 at 10:35PM
Tell him goodbye, it's not worth the time if you're not equally contributing. What, do you think he's gonna suddenly change...just gets harder as time goes by.
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Posted Jul 3rd, 2009 at 5:10PM
Ask him why he isn't doing his part and if he has no reason and it's just out of laziness, you pretty much know what you have to do. If you, however, want the relationship to work regardless then give him a set time to get a job and start putting in his share. Tell him the free ride is over and that if he wants to continue to live and be with you he's going to have prove it.
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