When you speak to her, should she start talking about something that bothers you simply say I don't want to discuss stuff like that. If you want to continue this conversation, then that is fine, but if it is hurtful or nasty about someone else or something else then I am hanging up. Leave it at that. she may feel that she has not been validated by having you listen without judging, but she may be guilty of the same thing. Ask her if she just wants you to listen to her or if she really wants to know what you think. Tell her that listening is a two way street and should she want you to listen to her, then she should listen to you as well, both ways without judgement. If that doesn't work, hang up and do not feel guilty about it. Most people that just talk to you so they have an ear to ***** in will stop really quick when given those choices. =)
Just tell her unless she can be honest with you --you would rather not talk about it
Simple not be there or have a friend w/you & act busy w/them? Sometimes we must be cruel 2b kind, she should know how u feel or forever feel uncomfortable. .k? U don't have to sit there, act busy and/or tell her to be straight b/c u know why the 5th wind blows! <br />
Best to you,but know that the lies are bigger now that she's been w/the best! Watch your money & things as well...shame we become the parent & they are not 2b trusted! Ask for higher guidance & tell her to do the same...eh hears our cries~<br />
I also wanted to add that she's not catering to you or your needs is she? She is bring you down,so don't hold back k?
simple- let her do the talking.. have ur judgements in ur place.. and ignore the rest... its no point to discuss wot all has happened.. rather we should try to make present and future better.. rest everything is irrelevant.
Why not just let her talk?
Just listen to her, you're old enough to know the truth. Tell her how you're feeling and go on with your life.
Welp I guess you'll have to avoid her then
You're welcome. Good luck with everything. Don't let her bring you down
please,she left you to go to jail,she owes you and how about your feelings?
oh ,one of those,a real con.any family you can live with?
you don't owe her that. you're old enough for the truth
tune her out.
I didn't relies that ui & her didn't live togeather! Don't answer the phone....simple,she'll get the message..sooner/later?
Record her lies for her parol officer.