My mom just got out of jail. i know she going to tell me all these lies.how do i change subjet W/out hurting her feelins
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Posted by TessNunya Nov 16th, 2012 at 9:06PM
When you speak to her, should she start talking about something that bothers you simply say I don't want to discuss stuff like that. If you want to continue this conversation, then that is fine, but if it is hurtful or nasty about someone else or something else then I am hanging up. Leave it at that. she may feel that she has not been validated by having you listen without judging, but she may be guilty of the same thing. Ask her if she just wants you to listen to her or if she really wants to know what you think. Tell her that listening is a two way street and should she want you to listen to her, then she should listen to you as well, both ways without judgement. If that doesn't work, hang up and do not feel guilty about it. Most people that just talk to you so they have an ear to ***** in will stop really quick when given those choices. =)
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Reply by mylife16 Nov 16th, 2012 at 10:38PM
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Posted by SoulSeeker67 Nov 16th, 2012 at 8:28PM
Just tell her unless she can be honest with you --you would rather not talk about it
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Posted by Chanistaya Nov 16th, 2012 at 9:51PM
Simple not be there or have a friend w/you & act busy w/them? Sometimes we must be cruel 2b kind, she should know how u feel or forever feel uncomfortable. .k? U don't have to sit there, act busy and/or tell her to be straight b/c u know why the 5th wind blows!
Best to you,but know that the lies are bigger now that she's been w/the best! Watch your money & things as well...shame we become the parent & they are not 2b trusted! Ask for higher guidance & tell her to do the same...eh hears our cries~
I also wanted to add that she's not catering to you or your needs is she? She is bring you down,so don't hold back k?
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Reply by mylife16 Nov 16th, 2012 at 10:38PM
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Posted by ambuj03 Nov 16th, 2012 at 9:04PM
simple- let her do the talking.. have ur judgements in ur place.. and ignore the rest... its no point to discuss wot all has happened.. rather we should try to make present and future better.. rest everything is irrelevant.
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Reply by mylife16 Nov 16th, 2012 at 10:37PM
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Posted by JaneD0ugh Nov 16th, 2012 at 8:58PM
Why not just let her talk?
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Reply by mylife16 Nov 16th, 2012 at 10:36PM
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Posted by taurasiwade Nov 16th, 2012 at 8:48PM
Just listen to her, you're old enough to know the truth. Tell her how you're feeling and go on with your life.
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Reply by mylife16 Nov 16th, 2012 at 8:50PM
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Reply by taurasiwade Nov 16th, 2012 at 8:53PM
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Posted by baydog2013 Nov 16th, 2012 at 8:30PM
please,she left you to go to jail,she owes you and how about your feelings?
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Reply by mylife16 Nov 16th, 2012 at 8:35PM
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Reply by baydog2013 Nov 16th, 2012 at 8:42PM
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Posted by atadir Nov 16th, 2012 at 8:30PM
you don't owe her that. you're old enough for the truth
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Reply by mylife16 Nov 16th, 2012 at 8:34PM
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Reply by baydog2013 Nov 16th, 2012 at 8:43PM
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Posted by pieante Dec 11th, 2012 at 5:00AM
Record her lies for her parol officer.
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Reply by mylife16 Dec 14th, 2012 at 9:37PM
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