My mom tell me to stay away from boys. how can i tell her that it is not wrong?
i am 13 year old girl and my mom tell to stay away from boys. i have a boyfriend and she got to know about him many times and always used to scold me. my brother is also against it and i feel like killing myself. i m not going beyond my limits and we have never hang out because my brother's friends are always around n wherever i go i can see my brothers friends or if not my brother always get to know where i am . i m myself against physical relations but i whenever i try to explain it to my parents and brother they start lecturing. and we both are very serious for each other. please i need the right suggestion and help which can help me and my family to.
10 Answers to "My mom tell me to stay away from boys. how can i tell her that it is not wrong?"
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they do this out of fear. They know what they did wrong at their age. Its only to protect you. I KNOW IT SUCKS. I wish someone had spoke to me when I was younger though. It would have saved me a lot of heart break!!!!
you are a young girl who should ENJOY her life before she gets attached to a male. believe me you will miss out on a lot by sticking to a guy...its a sad truth. Now I know you say you wont cross a line but your heart will cross lines unknowingly. Your mind too... Its hard to understand at the age and it took me YEARS to see this but its true. as a beautiful women you will find yourself living for the bond you have with each other rather than finding WHO you are. Give it time....be friends...and learn about YOU. <3Like (3)
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I'm sorry to tell u Sanya, but NOONE is serious about ANYTHING at YOUR age hun, all you're doing right now is EXPERIENCING life, n learning
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yeah your mum is right stay away from boys..... before your mum puts the blame on him about everything....
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whats wrong? if my bf can prove it??
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everything about boys is wrong we're all bad in mummys eyes you will never prove to or convince mummy even if he's the most caring charming boy in the world he's still bad..... & god help him if you ever fall pregnant that willl be all his fault too :)
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i guess 13 is too young, but most people start having relationships at that age. people often equate relationship to sex and you cant blame them.
wait a few more years, than most people might agree more about you having one.Like (1)
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She wants the best for you. They know how the game works and they want to protect you.
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i know but she should at least talk to the boy and then make a decision but she denies she dont even listen to me
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and honestly i am afraid of discussing all this to her i am afraid because i will be grounded if i did so.
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you shouldnt have sex yet, wait 3 or 4 years more. Say to your mother and your bro that youre now only friends with that boy and avoid being seen by your brothers friends kissing with your bf. I dont like that suggestion but in ur situation it may fits. Pattience in some years you will be able to do whatever u want :)
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they say they will allow me after my 10th
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10th?
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you should listen to your mom
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You can't tell her it's not wrong. Your mother was burned in the past and wants to keep you safe from getting burned like she did. I'm sure she feels it's too intense to share with you so she will not give you the details. Hopefully you don't end up with the wrong kind of boys and get burned yourself, otherwise, you will repeat this cycle.
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my mother is a small town girl and she was not into all this
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Your mother has her reasons though not all of them are sound. I'm sure she isn't giving you the full story. People fear physical relationships for a reason. Many people misuse them.
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It depends on the boy
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he was a dumbo before but now he is a really nice guy and he doesnt even talk to any other girl.
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I would just be careful
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Best Answer (Chosen by Voting):
Posted by AnxietyReactor Mar 19th, 2013 at 8:52AM
You're 13, having sex at 13 isn't a good idea, I agree with your parents. You don't have to stay away from boys, just stay away from their naughties for another 4 years.
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Reply by sanyaverma Mar 19th, 2013 at 8:53AM
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Reply by AnxietyReactor Mar 19th, 2013 at 8:56AM
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