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My mother died 3 months ago(from cancer) and after that i lost my job and i don't how to move on..?

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I know it's hard but take each day a half of step at a time, that way you'll see what you are getting into before you take the full step. It's going to take you a while to find yourself, but don't stop trying. Get out everyday, even if it's to walk to the end of the curb and back in the house. There's nothing wrong with you having conversations to yourself as if you were talking to your Mom. Just hang in there. Take care!
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Posted Sep 30th, 2009 at 3:32AM
I still miss my mum too. Try to talk with someone that is close to you & knows more about your situation!
*condolences*
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Posted Sep 29th, 2009 at 7:32PM
You might want to share this as a story as it is not really a question. When asking a question, the ability for multiple replies from the same person is removed. I am sorry to hear about the fix you are in, but I am sure there are people here who have been in similiar circumstances that will have some nuggets of wisdom for you. Share this as a story...
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Posted Sep 30th, 2009 at 3:32AM
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. As they say, when it rains, it pours.
I went through something similar (lost brother, job, dog, house burned down, crashed car, got stalked--all in a few months), and all I can say is:

Take it one day at a time. It gets easier with time, I swear (it won't hurt any less, but you'll learn to deal with it). Sometimes great loss, as terrible as it is, brings new perspective in life and can show you what really matters. Allow yourself time to go through the grieving process as well.
If you ever want to talk, feel free to message me anytime. Best of luck to you, my dear.
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Posted Sep 29th, 2009 at 7:33PM
Well just realize that your world has been pretty much turned upside down. It will take time to get back on track. Surround yourself with people you care about, Talk to them about what you are going through. Get involved in activities.....as far as the job, that can be a little more difficult, I know where I live it is near to impossible to find one

Good luck and great big hugs to you!!
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Posted Sep 29th, 2009 at 7:34PM
I lost my mother last august and my father before 2000. My mother had lung cancer but it was the complications that caused her the most problems. She was everything I felt family mothers were all about.

I'm sorry for your loss!
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Posted Sep 29th, 2009 at 7:37PM
You move on, one day at a time.

Travelinman39 made a good point in that if you are grieving, it may help you to join a group here.

There are many wonderful supportive people here.
Good luck
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Posted Sep 29th, 2009 at 7:40PM
It's hard to move on after the death of a loved one. I lost my grandfather in 2007 (he'd been battling cancer since I was born in 1988). He was my male role model and it took me forever to start "living" again. I watched him take his last breath and my heart broke. I'd never felt that kind of pain before. If you're uncomfortable talking to a psychologist, get a journal. Write down all of your feelings: the anger, the guilt, the sadness, the desperation....all of the feelings that come with the death of someone you care about. Also, use your family and friends as a support system--they will help you through it.

Sorry for your loss!
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Posted Sep 29th, 2009 at 7:40PM
I think 3 months is awfully soon to move on from the death of your mother. If you live near a Hospice, they have counseling groups for people grieving. I participated in one four years ago, and it was extremely helpful. Please consider checking one out. As for your job, take it slow (especially because of the economy). While job searching, volunteering at a place you really like always helps and impresses the prospective employer. I'm sorry all this stuff happened to you at once. Feel better. KillerKitten
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Posted Sep 29th, 2009 at 7:51PM
Its going to take time and support. Like they suggest, share a story or talk to someone about it.
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Posted Sep 29th, 2009 at 8:04PM
i'm sorryyy for hearing that..........

time for you to find GOd beb,,,...he can help you in anything
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Posted Sep 29th, 2009 at 8:16PM
As suggested, three months is a very short time and if you lost your job after that, then it, too, is a very short time. You have just suffered two of the most traumatic events one can have (others include moving, divorce, childbirth, bankruptcy) in one's life. I realise you want to move ahead and try and put some of this behind you. Again, one day at a time, loving, supportive friends and looking at how you can honour your mother's memory can all help. I always suggest that you look at what's happening right now and think of what your dear-departed one would want you to do. Out of love and respect for her memory, it can help if you could do what she would want you to do. Life is for the living. Hope this helps a little.
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