No, she's scared! Understand, that from her point of view 'her little girl' is growning up and asking questions she does not really understand. You are stronger than she is (you have a future, she does not), and is just reacting in desperate self-defence. Suggest you show her compassion and tolerance and patience, while you grow into womanhood
Don't worry, my mum is the same.
No, she is a drill instructor. Send her to a boot camp.