You gotta let her in, but in order to do that, she has gotta know the truth. The only way for therapy to be effective is to be honest about how you're feeling with the therapist.
Tell your therapist this and ask to her face why she is judging you and if you should just go to someone else
If you are not happy with this therapist, maybe you can find another one who seems more sympathetic. What makes you think she was judging you?
Sad to say it's just part of human nature to "judge."
Next!!! If u don't feel it the first visit find another one