The 43 year old. He shouldn't be feeding such a interest on a young, impressionable girl (be she flirting with a married man or not - she's young and stupid).
A 17 year old girl having the hots for her teacher is understandable.
A 43 year old man unable to control himself is not.
I agree its disgusting and disturbing...you expect it from students...young and stupid...the guy is just stupid and a predator! Used to be a saying 15 will get you 20...no morals on his part....I'd really reconsider wanting to be associated with someone like that....if you want to find out about a person...look at who their friends are...
both, bad! He'll get thrown in jail. Although if it were an older woman with a younger boy then that boy would be seen as a hero
Wait....your partner is a 43 year old married man? I'm assuming he's not married to you?
I was thinking the same, unless she used partner instead of co-worker ....
Or maybe partner instead of husband....
Flirting is okay. Being attracted to younger women is natural.
Knowing she is 17 and not controlling himself is a big, BIG no no.
I don't care how much she might get your gears grinding, she is still a child and you need to be a man and ignore her.
Cheating I can understand. Being addicted to sex I can understand. Hell, needing multiple women in the same day I can understand.
I draw the line at minors. That law is there to protect them from us, older men who know how to be predators and could probably talk the panties off of any inexperienced girl.
There are plenty of 18 and 19 year old ****** willing to satisfy his every desire.
Let the girl alone. Have some damn honor.
They both are, but your partner should hold most of the blame. He should know better.
its sick..... the girl is on wrong side she should stop
he is because he is the older one and he knows its forbidden to have any kind of relationship with the student. the girl is to blame for liking him but she is just 17 and trust me i know coz im 17 some girls are insane
BOTH - him for leting it happen, here for doing it.
He is guilty. She's a dumb kid.
Both, but the 43 yr old needs to level with the 17 yr old and tell her that it ain't gonna happen.
question is not "guilty.".. if you are willing to fix it... and if its mutual ..forget everythin!
Both. He shouldn't be flirting with girls when he knows he's married, and she shouldn't be flirting with a married man.
Both. They are encouraging each other.
the guy is the guilty one because he is an adult: a guy made to lead the young. The girl has part of the blame, but it isnt her fault when her councelour, her guide, flirts with her and encourages her to be with him! she doesnt know what she wants yet. She's young. She changes all the time. Instead, he is taking advantage of her.