The 43 year old. He shouldn't be feeding such a interest on a young, impressionable girl (be she flirting with a married man or not - she's young and stupid).
A 17 year old girl having the hots for her teacher is understandable.
A 43 year old man unable to control himself is not.
he is because he is the older one and he knows its forbidden to have any kind of relationship with the student. the girl is to blame for liking him but she is just 17 and trust me i know coz im 17 some girls are insane
They both are, but your partner should hold most of the blame. He should know better.
its sick..... the girl is on wrong side she should stop
BOTH - him for leting it happen, here for doing it.
both, bad! He'll get thrown in jail. Although if it were an older woman with a younger boy then that boy would be seen as a hero
17 is the legal age in some states, I don't know if it is in all
He is guilty. She's a dumb kid.
Both, but the 43 yr old needs to level with the 17 yr old and tell her that it ain't gonna happen.
Wait....your partner is a 43 year old married man? I'm assuming he's not married to you?
I was thinking the same, unless she used partner instead of co-worker ....
Or maybe partner instead of husband....
Both. He shouldn't be flirting with girls when he knows he's married, and she shouldn't be flirting with a married man.
Flirting is okay. Being attracted to younger women is natural.<br />
Knowing she is 17 and not controlling himself is a big, BIG no no.<br />
I don't care how much she might get your gears grinding, she is still a child and you need to be a man and ignore her.
Cheating I can understand. Being addicted to sex I can understand. Hell, needing multiple women in the same day I can understand.
I draw the line at minors. That law is there to protect them from us, older men who know how to be predators and could probably talk the panties off of any inexperienced girl.
There are plenty of 18 and 19 year old ****** willing to satisfy his every desire.
Let the girl alone. Have some damn honor.
Both. They are encouraging each other.
the guy is the guilty one because he is an adult: a guy made to lead the young. The girl has part of the blame, but it isnt her fault when her councelour, her guide, flirts with her and encourages her to be with him! she doesnt know what she wants yet. She's young. She changes all the time. Instead, he is taking advantage of her.
I'm tired of people saying she's young and dumb... She knows right from wrong rather she's 16,17,18. He is involved, married or not and he is wrong. I know what men that age are looking for in girls that age... Thightness!
she's not dumb, she's confused! maybe she's a girl used to rejection or something, and FINALLY a man has her attention!
question is not "guilty.".. if you are willing to fix it... and if its mutual ..forget everythin!
It's him cuz his job is to teach. Not there to abuse his authority. It's like being peodephile. Not cool. The girl was young and don't know much and he was flattered. Not the girls fault cuz teachers are human being too but she will get hurt eventually. If he's found out he'd be in alot of trouble. I'd report him too.
BOTH ARE WRONG... I'm going through the same thing with my significant other of sixteen years and our fiends' 17 year old daughter