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My partner keeps looking at other women and when I notice gose mental at me saying i'm nuts what can I do ?

We have just had the talk about how it make's me feel he shouted I just hope he take's notice befor it's to late.

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16 Answers to "My partner keeps looking at other women and when I notice gose mental at me saying i'm nuts what can I do ?"

  1. LordR1160 - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by LordR1160 May 29th, 2012 at 9:25AM

    Start looking at other men.

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  2. LakeMist - 56-60 years old - female

    Reply by LakeMist May 29th, 2012 at 10:43AM

    Oh, yes, for sure do as Lord R says and THEN after he gets jealous DUMP HIM like a hot potato!

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  3. fightn4me - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by fightn4me May 29th, 2012 at 9:42AM

    Stop noticing him and notice other people whom YOU find attractive.

    WHEN he notices that YOU are looking elsewhere, just smile and ignore him. He is trying to lay a trap that is a double standard; he can do it but YOU can't.

    Overall, this is just the tip of the iceberg of abusive behavior...watch out...and get out if it continues.

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  4. Lucinnda - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by Lucinnda May 29th, 2012 at 9:28AM

    find a new partner. nobody needs anyone telling them they're "nuts".

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  5. denverguy - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by denverguy May 30th, 2012 at 6:33AM

    If you told him to stop and he still does it anyway not caring that it hurts you then I feel he has no respect for you because you wont change his behavior for you.

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  6. roadtooblivion - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by roadtooblivion May 29th, 2012 at 9:31AM

    Join in !! My wife is always pointing out pretty women and asking me if I like this look or that, or if I like the way she dresses !!

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  7. Crystalstaddon - 26-30 years old

    Reply by Crystalstaddon May 29th, 2012 at 10:15AM

    We used to talk about women we found good looking something changed?

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  8. ARTOFNOISE - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by ARTOFNOISE May 29th, 2012 at 9:26AM

    BE GLAD-HE'S NOT GAY!

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  9. ARTOFNOISE - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by ARTOFNOISE May 29th, 2012 at 9:56AM

    :-)

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  10. sftbllstar16 - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by sftbllstar16 May 29th, 2012 at 10:10AM

    Its not the fact he looks at other women that alarms me, its that he lies to you about it. My bf looks at other girls all the time, but im also bi so we can enjoy looking at them together. You cant stop someone from looking at another attractive human being. If they tell you their not looking their definitely lying. If you see a hot guy on tv dont you look? Johnny Depp? Or someone else? just because their a celebrity it doesnt matter. your still looking at them.

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  11. DcreativeBUG - 22-25 years old

    Posted by DcreativeBUG May 29th, 2012 at 10:02AM

    he's an as$hole dump him!

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  12. wokeupwithwoodagain - 46-50 years old

    Posted by wokeupwithwoodagain May 29th, 2012 at 9:47AM

    It's interesting that everybody assumes your "partner" is a man.

    Try to relax, take a deep breath, be less insecure in your relationship, and be thankful that your partner has a healthy interest in women.

    Is your sex life healthy and active? Then he/she's probably just whetting his/her appetite before coming home to you for dinner. I'd be willing to bet he/she spends more time checking you out than any other woman.

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  13. ddandme - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by ddandme May 29th, 2012 at 9:40AM

    Its human nature to look Im sure you take a look to, stop being such a jealous nag before he finds someone that does not mind ...how annoying that must be for you to look at what hes looking at every time a good looking woman passes him by ..I cant believe hes still with you

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  14. Crystalstaddon - 26-30 years old

    Reply by Crystalstaddon May 29th, 2012 at 10:10AM

    You don't have a clue I'm not like that if a good looking women walks past he make it very clear he is looking!! But if I was to look he hit's the roof .

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  15. ddandme - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by ddandme May 29th, 2012 at 10:28AM

    Then neither one of you are mature enough to be in a relationship.

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  16. Babydoll42 - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by Babydoll42 May 29th, 2012 at 9:32AM

    Check out this guy...his articles are awesome....

    http://thecurrentconscience.com/blog/2011/09/12/a-message-to-women-from-a-man-you-are-not-%E2%80%9Ccrazy%E2%80%9D/

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  17. FlauntTheImperfections - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by FlauntTheImperfections May 29th, 2012 at 9:32AM

    He is currently just your partner. If it bother's you that much, you can downgrade them to someone you use to know. :)

    Otherwise, talk about it instead of accuse. Start pointing out what you find sexy in other people. Ask them what's getting their attention... hair, boobs, butts, long legs,etc. My wife and I do this and talk about celebrities we think are hot. lol I wouldn't take the window shopping too serious unless it is incessant and he really seems to feel guilty about it.

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  18. MiniBryant - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by MiniBryant May 29th, 2012 at 9:30AM

    My ex use to do the same thing. He would even shake me around out of rage and put bruises up and down my arms because he got caught doing that and other ****. I think that's why now I could care less if a man I am interested in looks at other woman because I have learned that it's no problem telling them "Beh!.....good riddens!!! I know my worth and I compete with no one.

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  19. bsadog - 61-65 years old - male

    Posted by bsadog May 29th, 2012 at 9:30AM

    If you can't handle what your partner is doing, and your partner won't change...time to get a new partner.

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  20. imurfriend - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by imurfriend May 29th, 2012 at 9:30AM

    make sure he is not cheating on you

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  21. godisgracious - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by godisgracious May 29th, 2012 at 9:27AM

    i agree with lordR11, start looking at other men in front of him and see how he likes it

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