My persistent ex- bf has just sent me this text, does he finally think that it is over between us..?

He has been urgently trying to see me, and the only way to get him off of my case was to write him a horrible text, to which he replied angrily, and then a whole lot of make up sorry texts. I finally told him that I was frozen and in pain from our unstable relationship, and needed peace and safety, and could see him.. in time..
He replied:

"I just keep thinking that of the both of us, I am the one that has to change and be different, which aint a bad idea, and that, of anyone I've met, u are the sweetest and most gorgeous, I won't find anyone better but in time I hope we get the happiness we both deserve, Despite the heat I just want to hold u tight, make u feel my love, nd help u feel better right now. I love u little1, sleep well princess..xx"

Does he mean that we will find happiness with other people, or with each-other?
Does he now accept that it is over?

Posted 2 months ago

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Your ex-boyfriend doesn't accept the fact that it is over between you two.
He is just saying that he may need to change, but doesn't say he will.
He didn't say he will change, just that it is a good idea.
He is saying that you are the best person he has ever met.
At the end he wants you to know that he still wants to be with you, because he says he "wants to hold you and make you feel better", which means that to him... the relationship is NOT over.
He says he 'loves' you, and wishes you good night.
HE NEVER SAYS GOODBYE.

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shf84	Posted Aug 4th, 2009 at 12:16AM Sounds a little creepy actually. Rated: +3Vote for this!
eventually	Posted Aug 4th, 2009 at 12:16AM The 'but' in his text suggests he might have accepted it, however he should not be calling you old pet names, neither should he be telling you how he would love to make you feel better - which is a response to you telling him how hurt he has made you feel. LawRaJayne has it completely right, all contact should be broken, especially as he does seem to be pandering to your weakness. You both need to be leaving each other well and truly alone, including texts, so you can gtet on with your own lives. Hope that helps Rated: +3Vote for this!
LawRaJayne	Posted Jul 3rd, 2009 at 10:38AM to be honest.. kinda sounds like you haven't accepted it in a way. he might be sending you texts etc. but your response kinda says something. Just leave him. he won't accept it unless you leave him be, let him face it on his own. don't have any contact to build his hopes. coz even the slightest text will build his hopes. ignore him, keep away from him.. give him time on his own Rated: +2Vote for this!
cedricsmom	Posted Aug 4th, 2009 at 12:17AM Stay away. Don't write back. Tell someone the things he's saying. I think he's creepy. Rated: +2Vote for this!
badbane	Posted Jul 3rd, 2009 at 12:33PM okay here's the facts. A. You need to look him in the face and tell him it is over. I don't want to be wit h you. I am sorry it isn't working and I am moving on. B. text break ups just prolong the process. 90% of what we say to each other is not vocal. He can't see that you are done. He really likes you and it suck to disappoint him. But, your not happy. And you are both suffering. Put on your big girl pants and do it to his face. There will be some tears some texts but after you tell him you are done break contact and give him time to figure it out himself. once he stops texting and calling then you can see if friendship is in the works. Rated: +1Vote for this!

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