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He has been urgently trying to see me, and the only way to get him off of my case was to write him a horrible text, to which he replied angrily, and then a whole lot of make up sorry texts. I finally told him that I was frozen and in pain from our unstable relationship, and needed peace and safety, and could see him.. in time..
He replied:

"I just keep thinking that of the both of us, I am the one that has to change and be different, which aint a bad idea, and that, of anyone I've met, u are the sweetest and most gorgeous, I won't find anyone better but in time I hope we get the happiness we both deserve, Despite the heat I just want to hold u tight, make u feel my love, nd help u feel better right now. I love u little1, sleep well princess..xx"

Does he mean that we will find happiness with other people, or with each-other?
Does he now accept that it is over?

Your ex-boyfriend doesn't accept the fact that it is over between you two.
He is just saying that he may need to change, but doesn't say he will.
He didn't say he will change, just that it is a good idea.
He is saying that you are the best person he has ever met.
At the end he wants you to know that he still wants to be with you, because he says he "wants to hold you and make you feel better", which means that to him... the relationship is NOT over.
He says he 'loves' you, and wishes you good night.
HE NEVER SAYS GOODBYE.