will you life be better without a sister?
i know how you feel. I am the middle child in a family of 5. So i always have to make sure the 2 before me and the 2 after me are all in line. I would rather have them with all the problems than to loose any of them to death. So, seek the good and appreciate them no matter how difficult it might be. And dont forget to breath :)
Which brings us to your question.
Does she come to you for financial help? What exactly does she do?
Wow, that's bad news.
Sounds like you may have to give her an ultimatum.
I hope it works out. That's a really tough situation.
I'm sorry to hear about your mom. :-(