My step daughter steals and has 3 kids with 3 different dads,and is very loose,now she wants to move in?

Throw her into rehab! And don't let her see those kids until she's clean again. It'll be some tough love.

U NEED TO GET THOSE CHILDREN AWAY FROM HER NOW!

Some times the greatest gift you can give a person like that is to turn them away I don't mean the children always keep your eyes on them but she has to hit bottom and climb her way up if you keep giving she will keep taking
Find away to get the children and keep them safe at all cost
maybe try to get her some help time for an intervention you can't do this alone find some one close to you to help you.
You have to look after yourself as well
Where are the dad's of those children and do they even care ,I fear for the children
Good Luck

I agree with all of the others. Get her in rehab and take care of the kids. TOUGH LOVE! She needs help now! Good luck and keep us posted hon!

I would also definitely say do not let her move in. You will end up with more problems then you can handle. It would be like all you would be doing is empowering her to continue the way she is. My sister, and brother in-law had a problem with my niece drinking and some drugs. They basically told her, you are going to rehab in Florida (from NJ). If you screw up you will not be allowed back here. That was about a year and a half ago. She's now back in college, still going to her meetings and doing really well. She come up here to NJ to visit, and her parents and grandparents go to visit her at times. She probably will not come back here to stay away from the people she used to hang out with. So basically is tough love that you need to use. But, since this is your step-daughter and not your daughter, your options seem even more limited. But, from how you are describing her, allowing her into your house is asking for some major problems on your part. I wish you and her good luck.

If she is too bad to live with you, don't you think she is too bad for her children to live with her? If you are able, take care of the children and encourage her to seek help.

oh wow this sounds like too much fun - NOT!

she can't move in! it'll ruin your life. she needs serious help.

you have a lot of options. you could report her to the child & family services board of the county where you live and have her children taken away. extreme, i know.

or, you could tell her you'll watch the kids while she goes to a treatment program.

but having her live with you while she's abusing drugs/alcohol would be a nightmare. it's okay to say no, no matter how much you love your grandkids. it's time for tough love.

the root of her problem is from her family ... may somewhere when she was still young... talk to her.. you'll see that she have soo much pain.... maybe that will help her

Call child protection and do not let her live with you.

You'd be insane to let a piece of ghetto trash like that in your house. She would probably be better off dead.

Sounds like you raised her well - don't let her move in.

She will only bring you pain. If you want to take care of the kids, offer to harbor them, but definitely not her.