WOW...How lucky your daughter would be to be with her father if you love a boyfriend more than her...Sad,very sad
you're a terrible mother if you put your fiance before your own daughter, shame on you
wow, your child should always come first
Choosing a man over your daughter? Wow. Some day she may not let you see your grandchildren. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Find a better one.
Choosing anyone on earth over your own child is totally unforgivable.<br />
Get your priorities in order and be her MOTHER.<br />
Your daughter will always need your unconditional love and support.<br />
This makes me quite ill really!!!
How exactly is she ruining it?, and before you decide to send her to her dad you should first realize is your relationship with someone who could probably be bad for you in reality worth more than your relationship with your daughter. He could actually be bad for you, regardless from the fact he proposed.
i guess u sud do it , girls ne way love their dad more than their moms :P
Why aren't you married to their dad? Nevermind, yeah, send her to her dad she is probably better off there, dads are generally better parents after infancy anyway.
In my experience, divorcing parents often underestimate the extent to which children are traumatized by the divorce. If your daughter is trying to ruin your relationship with your fiance, that could be simply a sign of the pain she is in. She wants mommy and daddy back together, and remarrying will make that impossible. Sending her to her dad will not heal the hurt. Obviously, it is unrealistic of her to expect you two to get back together, but hey, she is just a kid. And she is hurting. She is traumatized. She needs compassion if she is to find healing. Perhaps family therapy will help, or at least some trusted adult that she can talk with.
sure... ditch your daughter... then when your fiancée cheats on you and leaves, then you will have no one... go right ahead
sounds like you're really good at relationships... maybe take a closer look at yourself...
How old is she, if she isn't following the rules of your house I see no problem asking dad to step in. I'm there with my 19 year old stepson son only his mom won't take him and dad won't put his foot down.
maybe your fiance should spend alittle time getting to know your daughter, planning some event for the two of them to enjoy; your daughter is probably jealous and feeling threatened by your relationship with him; but if she's unbearable and doesn't respond, then maybe ship her off to dad for awhile.
Maybe you should sit down and discuss with your daughter why she seems to have issues with your relationship. Pushing her to live with her father only makes it seem like you don't care about her feelings and you think that your fiancé is more important than your daughter. I think you should strongly reconsider your choice of action before you potentially ruin your relationship with your daughter, your own flesh and blood, forever.
what is more important your daughter or your desires ? answer to that question will lead you to the answer of yours
How is she ruining it?