Wtf?...OBVIOUSLY chop his dirty **** off!!!!!!.
Ewww slap his face..or kick him in the nuts!
Well, you are 36 or more, do you have any psychiatric or have been diagnosed with mental retardation? If so, you need to contact your parent or guardian. If you are sound of mind, you have to think about what happened. Were you both touching or talking about sex? Did he mean to sleep with him as in to keep him company because he has sleeping problems? What kind of sleeping does he mean? Then, since you are an adult, its up to you with whom you want to sleep with or not. Now, if it's a moral or religious issue, you have to look into your spirit and deal with the matter, while others look into ministers and finding Biblical accounts of types of ****** or the sin of fornication. You can legally marry him which is a different subject. If he is not blood relative, you might not have genetic issues in having children with him.