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My way w/ women worked fine... but I'm doubting something.?

My way w/ girls worked: I slept w/ over 50. I'm attractive, educated, sexual, insightful into girls' minds and lives, and can relate to people well when I talk. Also down for whatever.
I'm not shy or quiet at all but not a boisterous typical frat-guy type.
I'm not a pushover and I'm confident. But I do things like return phonecalls and text messages and don't ARTIFICIALLY ignore messages for 3 hours to look busy. My way worked with women, but I wonder if I should be more aloof or more inconsiderate or something. Doing that would bug me, and I wonder if I'm challenge enough with being a little slutty and a little bipolar. But I'm concerned because I don't want to miss out on sexy young women just because I'm not rude or "unpredictably" don't answer calls or something. Thoughts?

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This is quite a hilarious question to read... the only thing that you should be doubting is the over 50 women you have laid to bed with. Yes you are a little slutty!

Now, onto the bigger ordeal... You will miss out on an attractive GOOD young woman if you do the run around. As much as guys thinks this works, it doesn't and it is quite obvious why you are doing it. Keep answering the phone, making calls when you can or want, making dates when you can or want... you have described yourself as being the full package, if this is true, the only way you will miss out on this woman is if you don't show her "centered" attention (meaning you are checking her and every other hottie out) - girls don't like that and they, like most guys, don't like promiscuity!

That's my advice - take it or leave it!

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midlifemadness	Posted Jul 8th, 2009 at 6:15AM I'm a bit confused... you are saying that you are a kind man, all around gentlemen, try do what's right, treat women right and it's worked so far with women. Now you are wondering if you need to be an insensitive jerk cuz you think that will get you a sexy women? You think women want men who don't call, who are rude, and lie? I don't know any women who would say... "oh guess what? I found a guy who ignores the s...h...it out of me and I love it!!" You just keep being a guy who calls, pays attention and cares about women. You are not missing out on anything by being a the way you are now!! Rated: +3Vote for this!
Barebackrider	Posted Sep 23rd, 2009 at 11:38PM LOL....ultimate oxymoron....you claim to be a nice guy but yet all you are interested in, is finding ways to use women more..... If seeing how many women you can get into the sack is your measure of success, you need to first get a new measuring stick.... Rated: +3Vote for this!
MrsIcb4rP	Posted Jul 8th, 2009 at 9:27AM i don't get your question but basically i think you just be you. stop playin or bs-ing or thinking you need to be doing something other than what is good for you. which is being true to yourself so you can be true to everyone you encounter. most women appreciate honesty & sincerity. if you keep that then it will be appreciated & respected. Rated: +2Vote for this!
eventually	Posted Jul 8th, 2009 at 3:26AM I'm with midlifemadness - I'm not sure what you are asking. certainly you should not become one of the stereotypical men. Girls are not attracted to bad manners and inconsiderate behaviour. On the otherhand, if you're worrying because you keep getting phone calls from girls you are no longer interested in, then you should tell them honestly and not contact them again. None of my business, but I assume you are playing safe? last thing you want is something nasty or something that cries! Rated: +1Vote for this!
edgargeorge	Posted Jul 8th, 2009 at 6:07AM I don't know a single "sexy young woman" who likes being treated poorly or gets turned on by it. Being yourself always "works" best. Rated: +1Vote for this!
ZombieKitty	Posted Jul 8th, 2009 at 9:06AM Wow! That's so random dude!!! There is a saying here in the South, "If it ain't broke, don't fix it!" In other words, leave well enough alone. I don't know whether to laugh at your question or not... am I understanding you want to know what it feels like to be a jerk a****** towards women? Rated: +1Vote for this!

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