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Need help with my LDR relationship !!!?

We have Long distance relationship, I am not able to express it to her or be romantic, she has now started complaining about it. I am afraid, We know each other for 6 yrs now and we got engaged last month. We talk to each other everyday for hours. I was not able to answer a simple question that how she has changed from what I knew her 4 years back. I can email anything to her, I can be the most romantic person when I email her. but I cannot expree it to her when I am talking to her
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the written word is nice... but it's also a gift to hear those words. You can do it if you really want too...
Maybe something in you is afraid to verbally express it out loud for you both to hear. Maybe you have a fear of commitment. Maybe you need to really think about what this relationship means to you... if it really means the world to you and this is your true love, then you need to go outside your comfort zone and say those words to her. Is she worth it?
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MrsIcb4rP
Posted Sep 28th, 2009 at 9:19PM
just tell her how you feel from the heart. sometimes its easier behind the security of email because we can edit, polish, get it right. she wants the monologue. she wants acapella. she wants you...off the record.

if you feel more comfortable writing instead of an email, send a beautiful old fashioned snail mail post card or hand written letter on nice stationary paper. i did that with my sweetie and he was really touched.
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Katsuragi
Posted Sep 28th, 2009 at 1:58PM
Dude... chill out.... You know this chik 6 years and NOW you're afraid she'll realize you're crap? Look... all men are crap and it's only a matter of time before a girl finds this out.

If you can right in emails you can say it to... just right it down first then read it over the phone but make it sound... natural... you know?
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BillyFish
Posted Sep 28th, 2009 at 2:02PM
Women love to hear a mans voice, its not the same as reading. Just go and be with her, unless your'e a murderer on death row.
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