Need I explain my every single decision I make, just to please everyone?

I was recieving RUDE PMs, so I decided to change my setting to only accept pMs from members of my circle. I tried blocking these people, but that only got me being called things like "insane". Now, I have it set up so that I accept no PMs from anyone not in my circle, but I am still finding RUDE posts saying things that make mesound like a snob! I am not a snob, but how do I get that across without having to take crap like this, and still stick to my choice?

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I am so sorry this is happening to you!

Now you can understand why I have been absent from the

site a few times!....This behaviour should not be

tolerated!...Keep your chin up!....S M I L E!!

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Other 11 Answers to Need I explain my every single decision I make, just to please everyone?

KiwigirlAnj	Posted Oct 21st, 2009 at 8:17PM just do what you need to ,darlin.other people don't need an explanation. Rated: +4Vote for this!
Fourandahalfdays	Posted Oct 21st, 2009 at 4:05PM You don't have to explain anything to me. No one has to talk to someone who they find rude or offensive. Rated: +3Vote for this!
Shadow29	Posted Oct 23rd, 2009 at 4:26PM NO! Just be yourself and do whatever the hell you want with your account. You don't have to like everyone, explain everything, or talk to everyone here. And if they don't like it, TOUGH! That's their problem and not yours. You do what's best for you and let them talk smack if they want to. You can't please all of the people, all of the time. HUGS! ;-) Rated: +2Vote for this!
bobthebiker	Posted Oct 23rd, 2009 at 4:26PM I do not think you are being unreasonable, and from the few questions I have read and answered from you, you do not seem snobbish to me. I feel that blocking people might be needed at time, how ever once it is done the lines of communication are down, and there can be no good resolution. Rated: +2Vote for this!
stillgrieving	Posted Oct 23rd, 2009 at 4:27PM Hey snowlady, you don't owe anyone anything, people have to remember that it's your account and you as an adult are free to do as you please with it. As for them calling you a snob, don't let it worry you because the people who count (your friends) know better as for the rest their problem hon not yours. Have a great day/night. Rated: +2Vote for this!
JadedJewel	Posted Oct 23rd, 2009 at 4:27PM No matter what you do you will never be able to make everyone happy. Just hold your own opinions, be true to yourself and thats all that matters. Rated: +2Vote for this!
durbanpoison	Posted Oct 21st, 2009 at 3:55PM look... i's had a few drinks.. i didn't mean to say those things... Rated: +1Vote for this!
lost12345	Posted Oct 21st, 2009 at 3:56PM Oh brother.. all the drama on a website.. seems a little on the crazy side to me. Geesh - ignore and move on! Rated: +1Vote for this!
avibot	Posted Oct 21st, 2009 at 3:58PM you're definitely a snob if most people said so.. you can't make them think otherwise unless you post to every whiteboard on EP saying.. "hi, im not a snob.. but you can't talk to me, sorry" Rated: +1Vote for this!
logisticmosquito	Posted Oct 22nd, 2009 at 10:36AM no Rated: +1Vote for this!
alicia87	Posted Oct 21st, 2009 at 8:23PM I keel them! Rated: +1Vote for this!

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