New guy at work. He fails to attend my meetings yet constantly stares at me when I catch him. What's going on?
A guy who just started at work is driving me mad and I can't tell whether it's all in my head. Firstly, I sit at the back of our open plan office on a desk on my own right in the corner, next to a filing cabinet. He comes over at least twice or three times a day to seemingly get something out of the cabinet whilst making a remark, or asking me something when I'm sure half the time he's not actually doing anything there. I notice every now and again when I look up he's looking at me then looks away from a distance. Sometimes I look over when he walks into the office and he just looks at me for ages as he comes through without smiling, even when I smile. I am actually starting to really feel drawn to him and feel something's there but don't know whether I'm imagining it. He even winked at me once in greeting me whilst no-one could see, I smiled back but thought that was kind of unusual to do in an office environment. Yet he fails to give me the information I need to do my job!