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Newly single mom. Should I work full time or go to school full time?

I've been a stay-at-home-mom for the past 5 years and my marriage is ending. I've taken a few college classes but never finished. I'm 23 years old.

I'm wondering if I should just take a short, 10 week dental assisting class, then start working full-time as a dental assistant.
Or go to school full-time and work on my general studies to get into a 2 year program (probably nursing or radiology.)
If I choose to go to school full time I'd have to move in with my parents. They WANT me to do this...but I just feel guilty about it. If I choose to go for a degree, it will take me atleast 4 years to finish school.
If you were in my situation, what would YOU do?

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    bohaven - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by bohaven Jan 28th, 2013 at 3:34AM

    Your biggest problem is in the clouds behind you.What the hell is that?

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  1. BlueJ88 - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by BlueJ88 Jan 28th, 2013 at 3:39AM

    ??

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  2. bohaven - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by bohaven Jan 28th, 2013 at 3:41AM

    Look at the clouds behind you:)

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9 Answers to "Newly single mom. Should I work full time or go to school full time?"

  1. sergs - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by sergs Feb 14th, 2013 at 3:27AM

    I was a certified dental assistant for 10 years in Connecticut. I loved it. But if you can go to school for dental hygiene do that, they make way more$$$$$! Good luck!!!

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  2. prasuja01 - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by prasuja01 Jan 28th, 2013 at 3:44AM

    Go to schol and get next fùck frm teaches to give new childe jhe he

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  3. Mrsb1995 - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by Mrsb1995 Jan 28th, 2013 at 3:41AM

    Don't pass up this opportunity to further your education.

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  4. sawdustforbrains - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by sawdustforbrains Jan 28th, 2013 at 3:40AM

    get a job but do a home stufy course when kids are in bed

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  5. sumnerkagan - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by sumnerkagan Jan 28th, 2013 at 3:40AM

    This isn't guilt. It's pride.

    Don't allow pride to limit your ability to provide for yourself and your child. Consider the long-term results and take the path that leaves you with more options and income.

    There is no dilemma, unless your parents are unbearable to be around and would hold this over your head and use it to try to control you. Even then you should probably suck it up unless they're truly toxic.

    What your parents are offering is clearly your best option, although you should plan/negotiate a way for you to have some kind of income while doing it.

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  6. mudmen - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by mudmen Jan 28th, 2013 at 3:38AM

    go back to school...cna (certified nursing assitant) its a relativly short course offered at most community colleges and tech schools... there is a huge shortage of nurses and you have ability to move up to registered nurse and related feilds

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  7. RandomUniverse - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by RandomUniverse Jan 28th, 2013 at 3:38AM

    Get a marketable education. Nursing sounds like a degree that will always be in demand, especially with the baby boomers sliding into their later years.

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  8. RandomUniverse - 56-60 years old - male

    Reply by RandomUniverse Jan 28th, 2013 at 3:41AM

    I'm talking R.N., not nurses aide.

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  9. fishsweeper - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by fishsweeper Jan 28th, 2013 at 3:37AM

    I'd do whatever it took to get into the nursing program. When you graduate, you'll be in high demand EVERYWHERE. I think that's your bet for supporting your child.

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