Nice guy or bad guy? Should I break up from my 'bad guy' boyfriend and be with 'nice guy' who is in love with me?
I've been with my 'bad guy' boyfriend for almost two years. He's ex military, likes when things are his way and does not like to show affection. He always tells me to 'suck it up' and is not a good listener. He doesn't look after me and likes to have his space a lot. We live together. What I like about him is that I can't push him around as I could my previous boyfriends. He doesn't take me too serious which I like too. I have feelings for him.
I met the 'good guy' at work. He is really attentive, considerate, and has proper 'old school' manners. We have more in common than I've ever had with anyone, even my sister. The issue I'm having with him is that he is too attentive, likes to send me texts and calls me gorgeous all the time. I'm also worried that he is into my looks more than into my personality. We have a lot to talk about and I feel attracted to him. We went out for a couple of lunches and a dinner. We kissed and it was great. I haven't told him yet that I have a boyfriend.