It's a publically accepted way of holding members of the opposite sex close and rubbing against them - what's your problem with it?
It's a precursor for the slow ones, the slow ones are a precursor to...well you know - start flailing
Women don't like to dance alone.
If thats the case then theres something wrong with my man!
I need men to dance lindy so that I can dance lindy - the others can stop if they like.
Yup. That is what I said sir. Wanna make something of it? Hmmmmmm?