Ok ik now thast a friend of mine is gay . hes tellin me stuff that no guy is supposed to tell another guy.wat do i do?
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Posted by expo67 Jan 24th, 2012 at 5:22PM
Politely ask him to stop because it's making you feel uncomfortable. Just because he's gay (I am, too) doesn't mean that his coming out to you means the floodgates have to open on the hows and whys any more than it would if a straight friend wanted to share on his sex life. Tell him you care about him and hope he can find someone who can make him happy. Don't automatically assume that because he's come out to you that he's coming on to you.
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Posted by dorianblue Jan 24th, 2012 at 5:06PM
Sounds like you and him are working under different rules. Spell out the rules you don't like deviating from to him so he can know what makes you uncomfortable.
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Posted by Minyaa Feb 12th, 2013 at 4:10PM
Well, on some level maybe he told you that because deep in his heart he trust you for accepting who he is. But then if you feel uncomfortable be sure to tell him, so he would understand that it's not that you want to stop talking to him, but it's just that some of his words make you uncomfortable
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Posted by 1littlerose Jan 6th, 2013 at 5:59PM
Maybe because he likes you. Be honest enough to ask him directly so you can be honest with him telling him that you are not gay.
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Posted by james1944 Jan 27th, 2012 at 4:09PM
Perhaps you have to explain you are a private person, and dont want told explicit sexual details or sexual gossip discussed in a lurid way.Explain you dont want a friendship with him , to seem like you both are writing a new version of a sex manual.Sometimes friendship needs guide lines, in order that neither of you get upset or angry.. Some people love a " Dirty Story " and want a " blow by blow " description of " Bedtime fun ", they did last night.(You must tell him he is being too familiar )Others see this a vulgar way of talking..You must tell him clearly what you dont want to talk about, and what you dont mind sharing. Friendship is about sharing, but some things some people dont want to share, with everyone, even close friends they since they regard SOME matters. as private..
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Posted by Rooneytoones Jan 24th, 2012 at 5:16PM
duck and cover
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Posted by minatek616 Jan 24th, 2012 at 5:07PM
he tell ya how he clogged another guy up for an hour?
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Posted by artbandit Jan 24th, 2012 at 5:06PM
listen and answer the question
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Posted by Zenny123 Jan 24th, 2012 at 5:06PM
If he is making suggestions and your not interested just tell him that. If he is gay.. maybe he is trying to figure out if you are as well....
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Posted by SweetJuju Jan 24th, 2012 at 5:06PM
Has he violated the Man Code? Just ignore it, never speak of it again.
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Posted by Tgilly Jan 24th, 2012 at 5:06PM
simply say...way too much information...i don't want to know.
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Posted by deeken Jan 24th, 2012 at 5:06PM
I'd tell him to stop. If your not gay and he is talking to you like his girlfriend, that won't work. Guys aren't generally good at that stuff. Tell him to discuss it with a girl or another gay guy.
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Posted by TheJudgernaut Jan 24th, 2012 at 5:05PM
It is up to you to choose between your own politics and your friendship.
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Reply by clark1992 Jan 24th, 2012 at 5:08PM
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