Ok men: help me out with contacting this guy (please? )
I'm trying to be a bit less inhibited and more forward in my interactions with guys. I've previously been a bit too worried about how they might perceive every little thing that I do.
Anyway, I'm already Facebook friends with a guy I met through my old workplace (not the guy I've been asking questions about recently, in case anyone was wondering). We didn't have that much to do with each other when we worked together and last saw each other about 4 months ago when I went to see a football game that he happened to be playing him (he was actually playing against the team I was there to see). I think he's nice and would like to get to know him better.
Any ways of approaching him on Facebook? Is a message to his inbox just saying "hi, how's it going?" a bit simple / weird / random?
Anything that might spark his interest in a friendly sort of way first?