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Ok, need some support?

my parent always make me feel like i am their least favorite, but i just have my own personality that's all, plus my grades aren't to their liking but i'm passing, and i'm content.

Sometimes i feel like its the internet thats their for me, more than they have ever been, and right NOW, i need some support from you all.

so could you just tell me i'm doing the right thing, by not letting their views and nagging get to me.

Thanks to all so far......
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Posted Nov 4th, 2009 at 6:15PM
I just want my kids to try their best, my youngest thinks I am against her all the time etc etc etc.

actually I think you and she are a bit alike in many ways


but I bet your parents wouldn't think twice about giving their life for you or if you needed a transplant offer whatever it was you needed.
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Posted Nov 4th, 2009 at 5:50AM
i think you are smarter than you let on...

that is my compliment.
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Posted Nov 4th, 2009 at 6:16PM
Trust your parents judgment, and when you recover from the delirium that is your teenager years you will see clearly that they wanted the best for you and wished you didn't waste your opportunities.
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Posted Nov 4th, 2009 at 6:19AM
If my kid acted like you do I wouldn't like them either.
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Posted Nov 4th, 2009 at 1:03PM
Not all parents know whats best for their young- some parents don't even qualify to "be parents"...some parents don't even qualify to be "human"...

...I can think of a few parents who are serving life sentences for doing what they claim was best for their child's interest.& the parents in question were once considered high lights & leaders in their community...

"this is why" you need to follow what you know is "right for you" & do what you must to insure your own sanity.
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Posted Nov 4th, 2009 at 6:07AM
You're actually not feeling any different than most others out there your age. I have a son about your age and all of his friends like to come to my house. They think I'm the cool mom because their mom and dad nag them and don't understand them. They don't understand how My son thinks I'm so bad. It's not anything to worry about and you should try to see things from their point of view as well as your own. When you can do that, then they will be a lot easier to work with.
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Posted Nov 4th, 2009 at 5:54AM
yea man. we understand and care heaps. its so unfortunate that families can be so dysfunctional, they love you tho. Instead of trying o make them see your side just see that thats how it is and your still freakin awesome.
laugh about it bacause you know better
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Posted Nov 4th, 2009 at 5:57AM
Yep yep :D
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Posted Nov 4th, 2009 at 6:00AM
Try to listen to your mum and dad.
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Posted Nov 4th, 2009 at 6:45AM
You've probably think that you are the least favorite because they compare you with your siblings or to others and that is not fair. they probably wants you to be in your best according to their expectation which is against your will.

Now, let say they will not care about you and will stop teling you what to do or blahblah sort ofs.. will you be happy enough?

we can tell you so many good or bad things but we are just in the net while your parents are, for sure always be in your side.

i had wished my parents told me so many things about life..

keep it up
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Posted Nov 4th, 2009 at 8:05AM
You will be a parent one day......think about it, will you remember these times?
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Posted Nov 4th, 2009 at 8:50AM
You are doing fine.
Your parents are humans too, don't be too hard on them.
You might be surprised at how much they love you, if a serious problem arose, say you were really ill.
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