You guys accuse women of being shallow and yet you are only worried about getting passed over by the "great looking gal"?
I'm very particular about looks, I adore certain features and dislike others that a different girl may deem as attractive. It all has to do with procreation, we instinctively and subconciously choose a mate that will result in favourable offspring. So what's good looking to me may not be to another girl. After a guy passes the test in the looks department then I'll look further and there better be a good, kind soul in there with very similar morals, values, principles and ethics to me or I won't even consider a relationship.
nice guys dont get the women because they generally tend to let the girl do what ever they want, wich gives the nice guys the illusion that if they do what the girl wants all the time, she will like him<br />
this is completely the opposite<br />
women need a chase/challenge and tension<br />
not someone to stand on
cause we're broke
Every girl is shallow. They can't say they go just on personality because the attraction needs to be there. You aren't going to kiss someone who you find ugly are you? Maybe your going after girls who arent into guys like you. Dont give up your search though.
Looks are a very important part of attraction.
Well let's assume looks aren't important. I think good guys are looked over because they want the bad boys. Digging deeper I think they want the bad boys (i.e. might not have anything to do with looks) because they appear confident and know what they want.... Good guys tend to shy away (well initially at least) from appearing confident and "taking" what you want. I don't believe good guys in the long run let girls "sit on their heads" - but during the initial contact, their approach is less domineering.