You guys accuse women of being shallow and yet you are only worried about getting passed over by the "great looking gal"?
In whose opinion are you a good guy?
I'm very particular about looks, I adore certain features and dislike others that a different girl may deem as attractive. It all has to do with procreation, we instinctively and subconciously choose a mate that will result in favourable offspring. So what's good looking to me may not be to another girl. After a guy passes the test in the looks department then I'll look further and there better be a good, kind soul in there with very similar morals, values, principles and ethics to me or I won't even consider a relationship.
nice guys dont get the women because they generally tend to let the girl do what ever they want, wich gives the nice guys the illusion that if they do what the girl wants all the time, she will like him
this is completely the opposite
women need a chase/challenge and tension
not someone to stand on
cause we're broke
Because women want security more than anything and the place a lot of the best guys they will ever meet in the "friend zone" because they think it will provide the security of keeping them in their lives and things not being weird.
Men and women want commitment to a stable relationship for the most part. The thing is women see commitment as being there always, men see commitment as a willingness to have sex.
So you could consider being put in the "friend zone" as a woman's equivalent to "commitment phobia". I say this because both men and women ultimately realize that a long term relationship will have commitment and sex involved.
Every girl is shallow. They can't say they go just on personality because the attraction needs to be there. You aren't going to kiss someone who you find ugly are you? Maybe your going after girls who arent into guys like you. Dont give up your search though.
Looks are a very important part of attraction.