This is a subject I can relate too. I will confess, us guys are pretty dumb when it comes to this kinda thing and usually the opportunity for a good relationship passes us by while we sit on our hands. If I could go back in time and take advantage of those great opportunities now, I am sure I would be alot happier....
Live in the now and don't waste time, guys like assertive women : )
I guess you can look at it in the win/lose way. If you tell him you like him and he doesn't reciprocate that feeling then you lose nothing, but if you say nothing at all then you gain nothing at all. What have you to lose sweety?
Sounds like you are afflicted with the same disease that haunts me, " Hopeless Romantic " You my dear are in love with the idea of being in love : )
A heart un-abused is a heart unused
If you tell him how you feel and he has even the slightest little bit of interest, it will only encourage him in a positive way. I have never heard of a guy who rejected a woman when he had at least an inkling of interest. It is always better in my opinion to know where you stand instead of wishing and wanting against all hope until your heart shatters in pieces
Mine too, many many many many times..... My greatest fault is that I give my love freely and without hesitation because my fear of missing another opportunity outweighs the fear of yet again having my hopes and dreams shattered. Everyone is different I guess,, I do feel your pain,, never give up and never give in to dispare.
Here is the perfect solution...... Make a non-committal statement such as " I like the way you think, I could find myself having a great relationship with someone like you " If he has the slightest interest, he will jump at this opportunity to follow that line of conversation to its conclusion, if he doesn't take the bait, then he is in no way interested in anything regarding a relationship and you still maintain your dignity because you never said you wanted anything from him and put nothing on the line, just simply commented on the fact that he is the KIND of person you'd be with, not that you would actually be with him. You lose nothing this way.
Cut 2 the chase. Ask him~!~
try to be as honest as you can. GOOD LUCK!!!!!
uuhh...hav u TOLD'M??!!...DUH!!
Ur gonna HAV ta break outa that or ur NEVER gonna get anywhere in life!
Well turn that frown upside down n get off ur BOOTY n DO somthing about it!!
Then y've ALREADY LOST!!
Cuz by th time YOU'RE ready...he'z gonna b GOOOOONE!
y're not BREAKING my heart wth that frown HONEY!...y're breaking y're OWN!!..by not DOING ANYTHING!!...y're shyness iz gonna COST u!...actually, it probly already DID!
"loner for life!!"...
If he answers, then he doubtless does. I would think that most guys wouldn't continue a correspondence if they didn't want to. Most aren't that worried about being polite or would find some excuse to be too "busy" to continue writing.