1, who cares what somebody thinks of me I don't like everybody either and thy don't even know I exist let alone care what I think.
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It's very fair for you to question it. Honestly I'm not sure, when I was a kid I grew up in a really rich neighborhood and I went to catholic school with all white kids (I'm half asian and I stuck out immediately). So I desperately wanted to fit in and be liked, and people's opinions about me mattered a lot. So maybe at a young age I was conditioned to seek approval from peers. Or maybe I'm just more naturally predisposed to seeking the approval of others? I really do like the feeling of being wanted and liked, and I completely don't understand how someone can just not care if others like them or not. Did this answer your question?