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I didn't want "EJ" to live with us in the FIRST place. My partner invited them in one weekend while I was working out of town. He has multiple arrests, and is an absolute leech. This "man" (I use the term loosely, because I consider part of manhood responsibility and work ethic) does little to nothing around the house, doesn't help with bills - And spends all day watching TV or on the internet. Occasionally - He gets money from my spouse and blows it on dope and booze. I still love my partner DEARLY - But I have two younger kids of my own - And have to put them first. Going to a family law specialist tomorrow (Wed 9/5)...
Grizzly260 Grizzly260 41-45 13 Answers Sep 4, 2012 in Family Struggles

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Guess what stranger<br /><br />
You been put there by the lord to help<br /><br />
This frustrated boy don't run away from him<br /><br />
It is hard for everyone who is raised by a single parent<br /><br />
By taking drugs he is trying to get over it as he is got many unanswered questions inside affecting the boy.<br /><br />
All you need is to assist your spouse if you truly love her.<br /><br />
Assess the boy and find out what is it that boders him the most ,then it will be a turning point in your life<br /><br />
The boy follow and you'll lead<br /><br />
But first you need to win his heart<br /><br />
You don't quit when tested <br /><br />
And you can't quit a loving lady just because you are tested <br /><br />
Face the reality <br /><br />
If you love someone then you must love her problems too<br /><br />
Fix your stepson <br /><br />
Make him your beloved son<br /><br />
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I was raised by my mom I never hear anything about my dad<br /><br />
Guess what my stepfather came to my rescue I'm grown up but if I'm not sure I ask my stepfather who is my father

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The answer is a camping trip...Two go out into the woods and one comes back.

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do whats best for u and ur little ones. He should understand and see it through ur eyes. He should put him out or get him help

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She is enabling his behaviour....difficult one. Help her understand what's actually best for this man...enabling his helplessness and sense of entitlement or allowing him experience the consequences of becoming a man able to look agter himself..tough love. If She does not address this problem then you may have to enforce tough love with her

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Drag your SO to marriage counseling. He needs some serious help if he thinks that this situation is okay.

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Tough call. If stepson has no interest in changing his life, lay the law out to him and your spouse. If your marriage is strong enough, spouse will respond. I hope you don;t have to resort to all out divorce. I almost did. Father in law lived with us, and was a leech in every way. He wouldn't cook his own meals, do his laundry, nothing. He was on welfare.<br />
My wife used to get defensive when I complained about him, but he went too far one day, acting badly around my children, and I gave him a week to be out, and very loudly. Wife stayed out of it. He was gone the next day. I would have left though, as in divorce, if my wife allowed him to stay.

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hit on him and then when you have him hooked, tell him your just messing with him so you could tell him to get a job.

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