Partner has 31yo freeloading son who smokes dope, doesn't work. So frustrated, willing to divorce if it means he's gone.
I didn't want "EJ" to live with us in the FIRST place. My partner invited them in one weekend while I was working out of town. He has multiple arrests, and is an absolute leech.
This "man" (I use the term loosely, because I consider part of manhood responsibility and work ethic) does little to nothing around the house, doesn't help with bills - And spends all day watching TV or on the internet. Occasionally - He gets money from my spouse and blows it on dope and booze.
I still love my partner DEARLY - But I have two younger kids of my own - And have to put them first. Going to a family law specialist tomorrow (Wed 9/5)...