People don't expect solution they just like to talk about their problems?

Asked By: Unlearn 26-30, M 4 months ago

Call me what you will, i always see solutions to most problems.

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Posted by niksal Jan 14th, 2013 at 8:28AM

yes, many do... to vent and for sympathy...others cannot comprehend a realistic answer...others have absolutely no problem solving skills...and still others have not learned to look within rather than to the outside for the answers...misery loves company.....

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Posted by Sbgf225 Jan 14th, 2013 at 8:26AM

Yes basically. Having someone actually listen to you is important than getting advice imo

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Reply by Unlearn Jan 14th, 2013 at 8:28AM

i understand that. even i appreciate a sympathetic ear.
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Posted by DisorderlyCyn Jan 14th, 2013 at 8:27AM

How weird. I JUST said something similar in response to another question. I think many of us see the solution but it's just not quite satisfying or find it's not quite within our grasp...yet. :)

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Posted by vickieprince Jan 14th, 2013 at 8:27AM

I want answers and I want em now...lol

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Posted by LucilleLucilleLucille Jan 14th, 2013 at 8:46AM

That is true for a lot of people.

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Posted by Wurkoutgurl Jan 14th, 2013 at 8:34AM

Sometimes...I think some people can't move on or are too afraid too. And others simply like the drama. Or...some need to talk it out to find a solution.

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Posted by chimbie88 Jan 14th, 2013 at 8:32AM

As long as both sides are clear about their intention then there can be no problems.

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Posted by Staley Jan 14th, 2013 at 8:30AM

Yes. Very true. Sometimes just talking something through helps a person to solve their own problems. Being a good listener is a skill and a kind thing for a friend to do.

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Posted by onwayout Jan 14th, 2013 at 8:29AM

I think people need to vent their feelings and have someone who's willing to listen. I think people would like to think there are solutions to all their problems, and there might be. But the main thing is to unload some of those things weighing on you so it doesn't just completely crush you and leave you immobilized.

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Posted by klegend0 Jan 14th, 2013 at 8:28AM

That's true , but do you act out on them

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Posted by wowable Jan 14th, 2013 at 8:28AM

so true
I think they are just trying to find someone who agrees with whatever decisions they have made

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Posted by MidgardFalls Jan 14th, 2013 at 8:27AM

yeah Im a problem solver.. for others.. and love it. but there are a few Ive met here I wonder about :/ one in particular

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