I wouldn't know personally, but I would think it would be the case if you allow it to. But it's a pretty 19th century way of thinking in regards to losing your 'blackness' I think. We are in the 21st century, we are all just people, race shouldn't play a part in anything, especially relationships.
i ask this question because of a comment made to my co worker by her long time bf, who is black. he told her recently that being with a white woman has caused him to lose his "blackness" and i wondered if others have felt this way having a partner that was of a different race/culture. and how would you take this remark if it were made to you?