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My ex's mother, who btw told me that if i broke up with her son he'd commit suicide and then she'll die and will i be able to live with that pain? Anyways my ex was actually quite supportive of the fact that i dont want to be with him, in his own insane way and recently texted me asking how i was. But his mom...she had one of my ex's friend to tell me that she wants to see me, putting him in a weird position because we dont talk much. I said no i dont want to. Then she called me up at 1.52 am and then again later today. I did not pick up because i basically have lost all respect for her and i dont like to insult people older than me. Not taking her calls is insulting but i can be a b!tch with words. Then she sent me a message, telling me things that she shouldnt have known. Like, who was i dating? I just want to know that this has happened to someone somewhere so that i can feel a bit normal. sorry for the length of this rant
DcreativeBUG DcreativeBUG 22-25 9 Answers Jul 26, 2012

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I don't date people who are under their parents' control like that. It never ends well.

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I had to learn that the hard way...but i'm only 22 so its ok i guess.

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well mu stroy is lil bit diff here my dad warned my bf nt to tok to me agn becz he thinks that he is nt a rite guy for me..... i lovrf him a lot n mu bf also but we are quiet in ths situatn and waitng foor rite time.. as rite are studies are going on.. n we dn want to spoil our futre i wish my pain n stry will hlp u n make u fl better

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No. But I was really up front with my ex's mom as to just how much influence she was going to have over my marriage. I've seen situations like that, though. It's bad when you not only have to deal with an ex, but with his family as well.

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the mom has a screw loose........keep detailed notes on everythin.....dates, times what was said.........i see a restrainin order in yur future

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I have heard this before where somebody is trying to put some guilt on me like if I'm responsible for others actions. Change phone number. Avoid this person at all cost.

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psycho...

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If he needs his mama to get you to stay with him, he doesn't sound like much of a man to me. Leave him. Whatever happens afterwards, that's not on you at all. Don't allow other people to manipulate you.

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I did leave him. For the very reasons you stated and some others.But its weird how his mom is more adamant on getting in touch with me than he himself. Do you think he is asking his mom to do all this?

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Most likely. I had a sister (she's dead now) but she had similar drama with boyfriends and their families. One guy had his female cousins calling all day long asking my sister to take him back and then when she refuse, they threatened to beat her up. Guys like that are a mess. Trust me, you don't need that stress.

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I know. I have cut them both out of my life. Thank you for your advice. And i hope your sisters spirit is happy wherever she is.

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may b he wants all things to be back normal through this mom

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A man talks for himself. He doesn't run to his mumzy to do his talking for him.

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