My wife is cute and I am attracted to her. She is by no means model material and she would tell you that. At. The end of the day what counts is the part you can't see.
One wants to get to know a person more because they are physically attracted to them. First impressions? You look at a person, like what you see and go from there. However today with online dating and all, you don't see a person but like them just by chatting. Here, physical attraction doesn't play all that important a part.
To a certain point, personality comes first
I have, didn't think it would mean that much, but it does O_O
yes I have, and she had your same name (it wasn't you, though, but who knows?) BUT, I could TALK with her, (that was a good start!) and we had s** a few times. And redhead. It was kind of like applied relationship therapy. But, after awhile we broke up. She had a little too much "chunk in the trunk". However, sometimes I helped her make dinner, or played with her kids, so I wasn't totally selfish. For some reason, I have not seriously dated any "svelte" girls, except for one who loved pro-wrestling, and that was my longest "dating/courting" relationship up til now. She was a bit of a slob too. But we laughed a lot together. She's gone too.
Very important...usually you only take the time to get to know someone if you find them attractive to begin with...unlucky for those like me =/
what do you mean,lovessmiles, by "unlucky for those like me"? You are very attractive! Then again, some attractive people find their mate easily, and some don't. On the other hand, some not-so-attractive people find their mate easily. But, as we all know, it's not really "easily", but, well, that's another issue. I am decently attractive, with a good mind. (not just a "Justin Bieber body"). I like attractive girls, but I always make sure I go beyond that and ask them to tell me about themselves, because marrying someone just for looks is dangerous.
i mean im not attractive
what you said kinds proves my point; that you have to be attracted to someone to get to know them
Not at all. Sex is overrated
Very important initially but never enough on its own to sustain a meaningful relationship.
I'm ugly as ****, so I rely on people who don't understand physical attraction because they've never felt it :o)
Hug for you :o)... it gets better, trust me xx
Yes, I have dated someone I wasn't attracted to. I regretted it. Physical attraction is fundamental, and absolutely necessary. (in my world)