Please everyone i need major help with this...?

ok so im 16 my sister is 14 and her best friend and i have secretly been together behind her back for the past two years. However, the behind her back thing hasnt really worked shes extremely jealous and self cantious and goes through my phone because she doesnt want us to be together and when she finds texts and stuff between her friend and i she freaks out and harrasses me and her friend and tells me how much she hates us cause she doesnt think we really love eachother and about how she was her friend first. i love my sister but i cant stand how she treats the two of us i dont know who should be more important i dont want to hear that family comes first because thats bull shit what can i do to make everything just work out

by the way talking doesnt do shit cause she wont do it she just freaks out or doesnt listen.

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To be honest it has to come from her friend. If her friend is really fond of you then she needs to tell your sister to "back off" and get a life and a new bf if she can't stand you being together. Sister's wont listen to brothers but they do listen to friends.

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mzdivine	Posted Jun 10th, 2009 at 12:15AM I was your age 40 years ago! We somehow worked our own problems out! Yes! they were all hard, BUT we were teenagers! One step below ADULTS!! Plenty of Fish in the Sea to pick from!! Rated: +2Vote for this!
SoulReaper	Posted Jun 8th, 2009 at 11:07PM It all sounds like a bunch of immature jealousy crap to me. You are all too young for this much drama. First of all, you should be able to date whoever you want openly. Your sister should be happy for both of you but for some reason she's not. I think she's afraid of losing her friend to you. Whatever her reason, she has no right to intercept your calls or go through your things. Second, sneaking around behind her back isn't right either. Maybe you should all forget about dating until your old enough to act properly. Rated: +1Vote for this!
bluehaiku	Posted Jun 8th, 2009 at 11:03PM Maybe it would be a good idea for all three of you to get together and assure your sister you are not trying to take her friend away. Then plan specific dates so you both get time with her friend. And maybe do things together, like movies, etc., but make sure you tone down anything kind of romantic until your sister is more comfortable with it. Rated: +1Vote for this!
Duana	Posted Jun 8th, 2009 at 10:55PM wow your poor poor sister. I think you should value her a lot more- you sound young and will have lots of chances at having girlfriends. Rated: +1Vote for this!
Harderstylez	Posted Jun 8th, 2009 at 10:59PM thats just normal, i use to do the same thing with my sisters friends. she will keep fighting it. be strong. Rated: +1Vote for this!
Coyotegray	Posted Jun 8th, 2009 at 11:34PM Life will present you with real pain, real challenges and real issues soon eough. All three of you need to turn off the soap opera, drop the manufactured drama and go get a real life. Rated: +1Vote for this!

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