Please help.. i'm not ready
I am 19. A week ago, i broke up with my girlfriend. We went our separate ways and a couple of days ago, one of her friends comes by my work and tells me that my ex is carrying my child. I have no idea how along she is but i was devastated.. I have no idea what to do. I am so scared and i have a part-time job that doesn't pay ****. I am afraid to tell my parents. There are so many emotions running through my head that i can't focus on anything right now. My ex already has a child with another man and we are considering an abortion.. I know that an abortion is not what i want to do.. but i feel as if i have no other choice.. i am not financially ready to support a child and i feel as if i am being selfish.. please help me. i don't know what to do..