Please help me with my friend trouble (read details)
Okay i have a friend who is constantly canceling on me and throwing me under the bus when shes around guys she likes so she looks better shes lying and hiding stuff and i dont want to have to get rid of her as a friend but i need to feel ok about myself and she loves to point out my flaws and stuff and WORST of all when my house caught on fire and i had no where to sleep she turned me away after 10 years of friendship :/ what do i do?
10 Answers to "Please help me with my friend trouble (read details)"
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Seriously, why would you want to stay friends with this trash? Have some pride in yourself, dump her.
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I know you don't want to ditch her, but seriously, you need to. that isn't a friend. at all.
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What makes you think she is your friend? Sounds like she is just an acquaintance whom you have known for ten years.
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WHAT do u do ? ....u DUMP her ..THAT'S what u do ...ENOUGH SAID
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She sounds like my former "toxic" friend. It'd be best to just drop her all together. I got rid of the girl like that in my life and things got a little better. I personally don't call that a friend anyway
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If you wont dump her limit your contact and make sure you have lots of witty remarks for when she attempts to throw you under the bus. I had a group of friends who were really competitive and because I didn't get involved I would always be the first they threw down but once I got witty they stopped for fear of what I might say
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she wont care if i dont talk to her and i cant retaliate when she calls out my medical condition :/
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you can you just say Oh I didn't know we were crawling on the floor now that was low!
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It may be hard, but you need to find a real friend
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drop this chick like a hot tamale and RUN
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Easy.... Dump her, you have mistaken her for a friend. She's not!!
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Best Answer (Chosen By Asker):
Posted by extracaliber Nov 2nd, 2012 at 10:44PM
You want two things that conflict with each other. You want to keep a friend who is not making their friendship available to you. I think you already know the answer to your question, but you just don't want to believe it. You want a way around it. I'm sorry, but this person isn't a friend anymore. You can do better.
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