Get a grip your 50 for god sakes
Eating healthy and work out 4x/week, good for you. You can't please everyone, just prove to them that they are wrong used all those negative energies to motivate you and turn it into positive, you just have to figure it out.
Are you seriously 46-50 years old?? No way. You can't seriously care that much what someone else thinks or says?? Woman up!! :-)
Ignore Her. I have been through this my whole life. Ever since I was a kid, my mother would dress me all in black in hopes that I would look "Skinny" especially since "Theresa's Kids" were going to be at the wedding, bridal shower, baby shower, etc. I couldn't after all, be around "Theresa's kids" if I was going to be fat. She would tell me I must lose weight, but in the same breath say "Oh, I made some lasagna do you want some?" And who the hell is supposed to say no to that?!
Stop starving yourself. The opinions of others do not count. Be who you are for yourself, not for others. Do not pray for anorexia, you will ruin your life for others who think differently of you. Tell your Mom in law to mind her own beeswax.
Screw her and be happy with yourself. Her opinion stinks
Why on earth are you listening to her at your age?
nothing wrong with being fat... everything wrong with being mean... phooey on her... be all the fat you want... and be happy about it :)
Time for you to grow up and at 50 do you really give a rats arse at what your mother in law says
Go get a check up. If your doctor feels you are okay, then tell yourself she is the one with a problem. I have a MIL like her and I finally told my husband to deal with her. She was being cruel.
you need to get an nutritionist's opinion; you also need to exercise at least 20-25 minutes, 3-4 times a week. Eating healthy does not mean you starve yourself; you need to keep a healthy metabolism to keep your body functioning as it should.
tell your mom-in-law to fukc off btich who the hell is she to tell you how to live your life?
Also, you don't need to pray for anorexia. It's easy enough to mimic the main symptom: just stop eating. Problem solved.
Tell her she is being superficial
Tell your partner that you didn't appreciate his mum's comment.
perhaps get some counselling.
you should stop believing what people say and be happy with who you are on the inside when your happy internally you think a little less then externally