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So I met a guy at a bar and we got really drunk and went home together. It was a typical one night stand. We exchanged phone numbers but I seriously didn't plan on hearing from him because in most cases they don't call.
Well the next day he did call. I went over to his house and we hung out, went to the park and drank some beer. It was a lot of fun getting to know each other. We had sex that night and again the next morning.
The following night he called again. I went over to his house and we just listened to music and talked about our lives and opinions and things. We were really getting to know each other. That night I stayed the night again but he said to me "I don't want to have sex anymore because I really like you a lot and don't want to screw up a good friendship" and I said that was ok and acted like it didn't bother me but it did. That night I could sleep at all. I told him, I can't sleep I'm going home and kissed him good bye. What do you think?

Maryella,
Is it just me or is this story all backwards? You said you met him at a bar and had a typical 'one night stand'. You didn't even expect him to call. But, he did.
First off, why worry about being rejected if you didn't even expect him to call after the first night?
Second off, when he did call..were you happy? How did you feel about HIM? Are you sure it is the guy that you feel hurt by or the rejection itself? Because, believe it or not, there are a few good guys left out there...and if he wants to be your friend, it doesn't mean that you will always be friends..or maybe it does. Sounds like he may just want to get to know you more and not make the relationship...be it friendship or more...about only sex.
Nothing wrong with a little substance, hun. I wish you nothing but luck!