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Relationship breakup after a brevement?

my fiance broke up with me 5 months ago,she was going true a very difficult time in her life as her sister that she was extremely close to died of cancer at the end of last year,she was depressed and as hard as it was we were getting on the best we could and tryed to plan our wedding for this year and get true each day the best we could,most of the time we were happy,when my fiance was down and sad i would comfort her and was allways there for her except for one day she left.had this happened to anyone here,did you eventually get back together,what did you do to reunite each other and how long did it take,sorry for the odd question iam jsut so confused and i miss my fiance,thanks d.
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Difficult this as people grieve in completely different ways. Sounds like she needed to do it alone or maybe she left because she couldn't handle losing you as well if you died. Write her a note telling her how much you miss her and want to try and build your relationship back.

Good luck and keep us posted.
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Posted Aug 14th, 2009 at 7:10AM
I have been in a similar situation after my brother was diagnosed with cancer. I pretty much went crazy and broke up with my boyfriend of 3 yrs. Shut myself up and went into a deep depression. He did go into remission and is still going strong even though this is the year they gave him to live to. But, it took me a long time to pull myself out of it and make myself get up and get my life back. Cancer is a very emotional roller coaster, for the victim as well as everyone in their life. I would just give her some time. Let her go through her anger and grief. Eventually she will step back into her own life. It may take awhile.
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Posted Aug 14th, 2009 at 8:08AM
She may need time away , to be alone to think things through, As the loss of aloved one can cause bad depression and we may not think straight, And she may have left as she mau have thought she was hurting you with her sadness.
All you can do is tell ehr you are there for her and willing to suport her through this and she may retun once she has got over things.
You have strong feelings for her so give her space and then ask her back when she ready , as at some point she will need a shoulder to lean on.
And hopefully it is your shoulder
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