School called today because my son had lighters at school. What's appropriate punishment for 11yr old?
I ask because I have disagreement with a friend about this. Friend thinks he should be grounded from tv, games, friends for a week. My way: he's suspended from school for 2 days, he's losing his fireman chit which allows him to do stuff related to fire with boy scouts, is being talked to by his gpa which is fireman about fire safety and being talked to by different gpa about what it was like to lose his little sister to fire and I'm showing him pics of fire victims and a house lost to fire. But friend thinks this isn't good enough cuz he isn't grounded as well.