Time for counseling, a good couples therapist/marriage counselor is who you both need to see.
Sorry to hear that..maybe try dieting and exercise to lose the belly..see if that helps change anything..
Find another women,before she kick you out for good. It easier when you have another lover to leave,women do it all the time.
Being shot down myself atm, but thanks for the insight. Wet shaving for a younger look has been a nice change for me.
Sorry, really I am. The following will be from a FEMALE marriage counselor... "The only way to survive a sexless marriage it is to run from it. I rarely tell people that divorce is their only option. In this case, my experience has taught me that there is little hope for change. Take your damaged self-image, your shame and any unhealthy beliefs you have come to feel about yourself and get out. Once you've done that, find a qualified therapist that can help you take back the power your spouse had to cause you to feel such negative emotions. The damage will die hard and may be slow to repair but with time and work, you will once again feel sexually desirable and attractive."
more from counselors... "What are the consequences of withholding sex?
Sexual rejection, especially by someone who vowed to "love, honor and cleave unto" you is devastating. It leaves you feeling unattractive and undesirable. You may internalize her rejection and blame yourself by thinking you are not attractive enough; sexy enough, thin enough, smart enough. Her actions will give root to unhealthy beliefs about yourself and your value as a person. There is the danger of depression, loss of hope, you may feel old before your time and there is certainly a sense of shame. Shame over the fact that your own spouse does not desire you. This shame keeps you from sharing your problems with your spouse. You find yourself with no support system and the growing belief that there is something terribly wrong with you."
The role sex plays in a marriage.
Sex is a way of connecting to your wife emotionally and physically. It builds a bond that promotes closeness and emotional intimacy. Sex is the glue that holds a marriage together. The sharing of intimate pleasure in a marriage enables couples to bond more deeply as friends. That friendship will sustain the marriage as we age, our bodies change and our need for the sexual connection lessens. Sex is what separates a couple’s relationship from all other relationships. A marriage without sexual intimacy and friendship will eventually sputter and die.
Withholding sex from your spouse or not being present during sex.
Withholding sex from the partner. The sexual anorexic will stay in control of the sexual relationship by: refusing to initiate sex, saying no to the sexual advance, makes the partner initiate the majority of sexual advances. Sexual anorexics also make sexual encounters emotionally void or unpleasant so the partner will not want to have further sexual encounters. This lack of sexual initiative and activity is the clearest symptom to evaluate in the initial intake process.