It is one of the most disappointing and heartbreaking things to experience someone you love cheating on you. I've been there myself. And yes, I would say STAY AWAY FROM HER! You have no idea what that guy could have INFECTED HER WITH when they didn't use a condom!! And trust me, you don't want whatever that might be! It could affect you for the rest of your life. It is disgusting what she did.<br />
Take this time to use for yourself, for your healing, just to focus on YOU. Keep the faith that there are women out there who won't do that to you, and hold out for someone who will be true to you!

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I don't know. I've been cheated on about a year ago.. but he didn't sleep with her.. so he claims.. and we're married.. soo completely different scenario.. I would definitely call it quits.. or at least take a break and think things through.. if you really love her and you can see yourself somehow moving past this and spending your life with her.... than maybe try to work it out.. at least a friendship.. it's not easy though :l .. get tested.. I'm so sorry :(

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I would add to that....if for some reason you have any "relations" with her....BEFORE YOU DO, MAKE HER GET TESTED AND USE PROTECTION!! Seriously, it's not worth getting an infection from her.

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And Cosreal, I so didn't know you were cheated on! I'm sorry to hear that! =(

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If your desire is to be in a monogamous relationship with a woman, then you need to walk away from this one. It sounds like you are simply a convenience to her, but perhaps are being a bit too possessive for what she is looking for right now.

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Yes. Snake in the grass. Poison. <br />
Find someone who actually deserves your love!

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i will thankyou.

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When you are having sex with her now, are you thinking about him ******* her?<br />
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When you do think about it, does it excite you even though you feel hurt and afraid?<br />
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If you answered yes to both of these questions, you should realistically face the fact that you are at heart a cuckold and you KNOW she either plans to **** someone else again OR she is and you have not caught her.<br />
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If you answered yes, you should go to her and admit that the idea and image of that other guy ******* her excites you. Then you should work out how to find more men and for you to be there when they **** her.<br />
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You can work out what your role will be. Some men like sloppy seconds, some men like being denied and force to lick her clean. Some like to do double penetration.<br />
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Whatever the outcome, I suspect your girlfriend likes sex with multiple partners. You have to decide if you want to be there or not.

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heck yeah drop the cow,,,, she even tried to cast blame on you, accusing you of pushing her away...<br />
which is no reason to f@#% someone else!

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Big issue, and one of the hardest situations to try and deal with. You should choose to take action in your best interest. Also, think about the intenseness of the whole situation. Do you in fact need the high dramatics in your life. If so keep on stewing till you are ready to make up your mind. If you don't drop her.

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Yes, she has no respect for you or herself.

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