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She finnished being my support worker after 2 years, now i miss our conversations like crazy... wat should i do?

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Asked By: marz82 26-30, F  5 months ago

this lady became my support worker and we met up for a 2 hr chat once a week for the past almost 2 years, now her job has changed the amount of time she is allowed to be a persons support worker and sadly she had to stop being mine... we both shed a tear over it and now i dont know how im gonna get through my weeks without her... i dont know what to do anymore, i feel i need her help still.....

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  1. veronica4ever - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by veronica4ever Nov 26th, 2012 at 3:25AM

    work on being your own support worker. i would tell you to get another person to talk to but that won't solve the main problem here. codependecy is never healthy. read self help books. keep a journal. standing alone is hard but the more time goes by the stronger you will become. the sacrifice will be well worth it in the end. try it! best wishes xoxo

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  2. marz82 - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by marz82 Nov 26th, 2012 at 3:33AM

    thanks Veronica4ever, yor not the first one to say that to me so im now thinken its true... its still gonna be hard to not have anything to look forward to every week :(

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  3. marz82 - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by marz82 Nov 26th, 2012 at 3:35AM

    i dont want her to think im dependent on her i just want her kindness and helpfullness in my life... i will most likely carry on without ever telling her how much she means to me..

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  4. Sarikh143 - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by Sarikh143 Nov 26th, 2012 at 3:31AM

    u didn't have to do anything.. time will do.!!! it happens in every ones life, i too have experience it.. u will learn how to live if not with her than without her.. and after all if she too cares for you having the very same feelings, she will not let u alone.. u must be able to judge honestly. is she with you or wants to live without you..

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  5. WizGeezer - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by WizGeezer Nov 26th, 2012 at 3:37AM

    Seek independence from perpetual hand holding. Ask your former support worker for a list of reading materials to help yourself to end your therapy addiction.

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  6. marz82 - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by marz82 Nov 26th, 2012 at 3:41AM

    i dont have an addiction to therapy ty!

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  7. WizGeezer - 56-60 years old - male

    Reply by WizGeezer Nov 26th, 2012 at 3:57AM

    "i miss our conversations like crazy." wat should i do?" "i dont know how im gonna get through my weeks without her." "i dont know what to do anymore." "i feel i need her help still." "i dont have an addiction to therapy ty!"

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