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She was drunk and made out with another guy. we are'nt going out but we are dateing and im taking her tograd?

what do i do? we are'nt going out but we are dateing and im taking her to grad. dont know
Posted 7 months ago
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Do what your heart tells you to do. If it bothers you, then say something to her, but in a nice way.

You don't own her and she's free to do whatever she wants to. But if there are mutual feelings involved, she needs to know that if this is how she is going to act when drinking, you do not care for it. If she cares for you, then she'll make an effort to not let it happen again.

But first you have to find out what you mean to each other. What may be love for you, may only be a casual relationship for her.

Communicate dude, communicate.

Either way, I'd probably still take her to graduation. But it doesn't mean you have to be side by side the whole time. If you follow through with your plans, you may look like a fool to others, but your memory will last a lifetime to her as the one that really cared and that she let get away. Although she may not see it for a long while.

Just my opinion.
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Other 7 Answers to She was drunk and made out with another guy. we are'nt going out but we are dateing and im taking her tograd?


skoal27
Posted Apr 26th, 2009 at 8:25PM
Tat2doc that is simply the best answer.

If this is a serious question take that man's wisdom to heart, To often we (men) become overly possivive/protective of our sign others when the feelings are very intense for us, this is doubly true for someone still in high school.

Even if your in a relationship you don't and never will own her affections she only lends them to you as she so desires.
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void00
Posted Apr 28th, 2009 at 2:05PM
Try to keep her away from the booze. If you can't, make sure you're the guy she makes out with.
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TommyJ
Posted Apr 26th, 2009 at 7:51PM
You said it yourself, you're not going out and she was drunk. What more is there?
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StudentofUnifying
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Posted Apr 26th, 2009 at 7:53PM
I'm confused about the "we aren't going out but we are dating" part. You're either a couple or you aren't.
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MERCIPOURLEVENIN
Posted Apr 26th, 2009 at 8:00PM
im with studentofunifyinglife on this one... i dont get it, whats the difference between "going out" and "dating"... dont you "go out" on "dates"?
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solarxmoon
Posted Apr 26th, 2009 at 8:01PM
that depends on how you feel. Is this something you can accept and still be comfortable dating her, or do you feel too betrayed to trust her?
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rem122
Posted Apr 28th, 2009 at 10:00AM
I did this once. He forgave me and its never happened again. I felt HORRIBLE and i dont even remember it. He cheated on his ex girlfriend doing the same thing i did.
People make mistakes and its not the end of the world.
If you guys are dating but not exclusive, she didnt do anything wrong.
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