No. Never intentionally cause pain, everything comes full circle. Tell her to take a hike!
I can't stand that crap! Some people just need to move on and let go! It's a maturity thing I guess.
No. Let her play in her corner. Don't play with the children - have a relationship with adults.
Sounds pretty drastic to me, and the basis for the next Adam Sandler romantic comedy. Outside of Hollywood, though, it also sounds like dynamite
Do you understand why the person is "causing problems" with you?
If you are still hung up with it then I guess it has not ended.
So you have granted your forgiveness, but the person hasn't had a chance to realize their mistakes and request forgiveness?