Should a person that cheated once and then again, be given a second chance after he/she is fighting a second chance?
10 Answers to "Should a person that cheated once and then again, be given a second chance after he/she is fighting a second chance?"
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It is up to the one doing the forgiving or not.
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Seems to me the way you worded things, they have already had a second chance. To me, no. They will say anything to get back in your good graces, but will in all likelihood cheat again, given the opportunity.
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Well not if you're not willing to acknowledge the open relationship, how about stopping trying to control the relationship and allow yourself space to reconsider why you are even still together? Somebody might need to move out for a while.
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it should of been over the first time
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No, not even after first time... It is not something negotiable - commitment is a serious thing and one should be aware of that... It's much better (more honest, more grown-up...) to say: "Sorry, I must leave..." then to cheat on someone...
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You know what it says when a person cheats? It's saying, "I reject you. I betray you. You are not my first choice." How many times does one need to be told these things?
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Nope. I'm not very forgiving. You make a commitment, you keep it or you end it. No second chances for cheating in my book.
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Just remember " never happen again "
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Yes, especially if the couple has been married for a few decades.
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Posted by MeLuvsMe May 29th, 2012 at 8:32PM
No. A cheater has no respect for you or for himself. If a guy wants to be with you, he will, and there is nothing you can do to make him stay. Also, anything you did to make him leave the first time is probably still an issue, so why is this guy returning to you? It's not because he misses you or because he wants to work on things; if that was the case, he would have never left. He is returning to you because he thinks that your self-esteem is so low and your desire of him is so high that you will always want or keep him in your life, while he galavants through the homes of different women. He wants you for security; a real mans wants to be your security. In summation, don't take him back!
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