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she isnt a long time girl friend just another one of his "playmates " well the one for this month, yes i have a boyfriend who has been there from the time they were 3 months , and he is still around , and i never let my kids call him dad because he is not their dad , but i dont need his girl friend playing house with my kids
Jessie214 Jessie214 18-21, F 12 Answers Feb 21, 2012

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As hard as that might be for you, yes you should. Provided she's a decent person and won't cause them any harm.

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and pays child support each week

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child support , lol no he doesnt , . i do it all , he spends time

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sounds like a "proceed with caution" situation to me...

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You have the right as their mother to set boundaries. She does not have the right to discipline your kids or play parent in anyway. Setting boundaries is vital. These are YOUR children and you are their only mother, they must be your first priority and you DO have the right to say that his time with them should be without her if you have reason to feel that way.

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If he's serious about her than yes. It eases the situation overall for your children to know who their father is seeing instead of keeping them in the dark--even if it is difficult for you

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they are every bit as much his kids as your kids and you have no right to tell him how to live his life as long as the kids are in no danger it is not your choice anymore

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i am 16 , he disowned my kids when i was pregnant , then his mom makes him help me , he loves his kids now but i dont need any girl coming playing house with my kids and he changes girlfriends every month

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that is his choice you do not have the right to tell him how to live that part of your life is over as long as the kids are in no danger it is not your choice if he plays house with his kids or not as much as that makes you mad it is the sad truth of the matter

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actually, by law and sense that IS her right to set boundaries. Daddy's little gf doesnt have the right to parent her children.

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I agree on the point of parenting but as far as even spending time ??

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Have you met her? I would want to meet her first, then I would allow it, I would also think you would do the same for him.

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yea , 2 days ago , she is ok but idk how long she will be around she is his 7th gf since the kids were born '

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Thats a reflection on him, not you, he shouldnt be letting antone around your kids unless he is sure he is going to let them stick around, I see where you are coming from now.

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